What is game, for you?

Hey guys,

I've been going out a lot recently with a couple different groups of friends. It's been a wild few nights, yet it's left me thinking about a few things.

Within these groups, I have two very similar, close friends. They both love going out, meeting new people and having outrageous, story-worthy times. In fact, they both are so alike that although they don't know it, they have the same sticking points.

Now you may think I'm about to go into common sticking points and how to work through them, but I'm not. We'll be focusing on that later on this week. Instead, I'd like to point out where these two buddies of mine differ.

One of my friends, let's call him P, gets laid. The other, let's call him S, doesn't. Now I'm not saying that he doesn't ever find a girl who will let him make his move. He's had the odd, random hook up, but my point is he's not the one choosing. And being the one choosing, seeing something you want and just taking it, that's what being a man's all about...

The other major difference between my two friends is their view of game. S views it as a series of predetermined words put together to get a woman attracted to you. He sees it as a fake personality you can put on to sleep with women.

My friend P has completely different views. P started out viewing game as a way to project his personality. A way to be himself, but also come off more confident, charming and magnetic to anyone in all sorts of social circles. Recently, it's become a part of who he is. He's still the same hilarious guy who started this journey, instead he's now able to confidently show women his attractive qualities. Game is his new natural way of displaying his great, natural charisma.

I guess the big question I'm asking is... What is game, for you?

Over and Out,


Ryan
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