Is She Into You?

Gather around guys, it's time for a talk about a key sticking point most college guys encounter on a regular basis.

You've managed to find a cute girl, started talking to her and now you're wondering how she feels about you. The problem is... How do you tell? You're not a mind reader. And you don't want to ask and risk looking like a tool. She's not going to tell you herself, so how do you figure out what's going on in that pretty little head of hers?

Most guys don't realize that women are constantly giving you hints on how they feel... You're just not looking in the right spots.

When a women is attracted to someone, she reveals subtle signs of her interest. These indicators can tell you when she's warming up to you, when it's time to eject, or even when it's time to seal the deal.

Now these signals vary and come in many forms, so you have to keep your eyes open. The good thing is most women exhibit the same basic signs. These include:

- Grooming (playing with hair, fussing with her clothes, touching her face)
- Eye contact
- Touching you and comfortable with you touching her
- Smiling, laughing, giggling
- Feet pointed towards you
- Leaning in towards you to speak or listen
- Playing along with your jokes
- Investing in the conversation

Don't expect a girl to do all of these things. If she is and you're in the bar still, you better start looking in your pockets for cab money. Generally it should take only three of these indicators to announce loud and clear... Make your move!

I say three because if she running her fingers through her hair, she may just be self conscious about her new hairstyle. But if she's playing with her hair, giggling and leaning in to hear what you have to say... You have the green light my friend.

Since women give these signals of their interest, they also give signals of their disinterest. These are signs that you have to allow her to become comfortable with your presence before she will start opening up with you. These can include:

- Not facing you
- Looking anywhere but at you
- Being unresponsive
- Avoid physical contact
- Crossed arms and other defensive body language
- Not contributing to the conversation

This is a lot to remember so I'll share with you guys a quick trick that you can use tonight to tell if that pretty lady is into or not.

During the conversation, while she's talking about her cats, simply look somewhere else. At your friends across the bar, the dancefloor, doesn't matter... Did her eyes follow yours? If she's interested in you, she will be paying attention to you and want to check out whatever you were just looking at.

Now that you can read any woman's mind, go out have some fun with it. Suddenly you'll be noticing that girl across the bar who's been scoping you out, smiling and playing with her hair the whole time...

Go make your move,


Ryan
The Professors