Hey guys,
I've been completely swamped this past week with so much going on, it's been absolute madness. But as always, I had to make time to impart the wisdom every man should have and teach to his children.
Today we're gonna talk about a mistake I see again and again when I'm out at the bars. A guy will start talking to a girl and everything might be going well, but other than some conversation, not much is going on. There's no physical contact, no direction and the whole exchange is going nowhere. So a few minutes go by, and the inevitable happens... She has to pee, or her friend comes to get her, or she's leaving, or any other creative excuse she might come up with to get out of the situation. What a lot of guys don't realize is that what you actually say is one of the least important aspects of your game. I know guys that would go out with a whole script they were ready to recite to the girl that was "bound to get them laid". But that was all they had. So every time they'd go out, they'd start up with the girl great, but then 5 minutes in, she's bored and leaves. Guys, remember where you are! Nobody goes out to a bar/nightclub to stand there and have a conversation for half an hour.
This is the time to separate yourself from every other guy. Take the lead. Steer the interaction where you want it to go and raise the sexual tension. By acting like an alpha male, the girl will naturally look to you on how to feel. What's not a big deal to you isn't a big deal to her either. Take that in for a second. You are the one deciding where the interaction goes. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking you have to wait until it's ok with the girl. They're thinking about it the wrong way. By having that belief that it has to be "ok" with the girl, you are really holding the opinion that touching is not a regular, every day thing. But if you treat it like it is an everyday thing, she'll follow along with that mentality.
The key is understanding that you touching her, or talking to her, or walking up to her is not some sort of bold statement showing how brave you are. Instead, it's just how you are. You just happen to be a guy that has no problem walking up to a girl to get her opinion on something, or touching her while interacting. It's just part of your personality. On the contrary, you think it would be weird if someone actually had a problem with that. As long as you maintain that frame of mind, she'll be inclined to be a part of the frame... It's just human nature.
There should also never be a big, ultimate moment at the end of everything. Kissing the girl or getting her number should not be this one big "holy shit" moment where you feel like you have to gather all your strength for this one great push. Instead it should be a natural progression. Again, if it's not a big deal to you, why would it be a big deal to her? So have purpose behind what you do and take the conversation where and how you want it to go!
It's been a rough few weeks with exams and whatnot coming up. But that also means that it's that special time of year. It's getting colder, the holidays are approaching, and girls everywhere need a guy for the winter to keep them warm. So it's time to sack up and be that guy!
Cheers boys and happy hunting,
Sasha
The Professors
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Monday, December 6, 2010
Standing Out... Minus the Fuzzy Hat
Welcome back guys, it's time for another installment of alpha info for your life. Over the weekend, we had some crazy adventures, but there's one particular moment that's been stuck in my head.
I was down in Toronto, meeting up with an old friend, when we decided to grab a few drinks at a bar close by. Now my friend over the last few years has transformed herself into quite the cutie and when we ended up grabbing a booth to chat in privacy, we were ambushed by a truckload of chodes. One after the other. It was like they were each in line, quietly biding their time until the dude ahead of them screwed up and it was finally their turn to strikeout.
At this moment, you're probably wondering why I didn't AMOG the shit out of them, make them look like creeps and get back to my conversation.
Guess what... I didn't have to!
Each guy, just like those before him, preceded to fail miserably on their own accord. I didn't have to do anything. And as the body count piled up, I noticed their lifetime shortened too. My friend had quickly put up her bitch shield, ready to shut down the next chode in line.
Now this is a ripe example of why you should start building a group of hot girls who are just friends. Not only will they want to help wing you when you go out, but you'll also learn so much from simply being around them that you'll instantly see major improvements in your interactions with other cute girls. In fact, this can boost your game so much, I want you to do this now... Like right now.
I'll wait...
Good! Now that we've got that aside, let's figure out what you can learn from my encounter with the chode attack.
After watching guys get shot down over and over and listening to my friend complain about how this happens to her wherever she goes, I want to reinforce something...
Stand out!
I'm not talking about looking like a clown with a fuzzy hat or wearing sunglasses at night. Don't even think of wearing goggles on your head unless your name is Scuba Steve or forever your new nickname shall be the underwater douchebag.
No my friend, you're an alpha male. You don't need to resort to these things to stand out. All you have to do is be different.
This weekend I watched gaggles of men poop out the same lines from their mouths...
"So you go here often?"
"You're so hot"
"Who lies more?"
Trust me, I'm not the only one sick of hearing these same lines. Women hate them! That's why they instantly become so cold. They don't want to be bothered with another loser spouting the same words some other guy said to her twenty minutes ago. Their solution... Get rid of this clueless dude as quickly as possible. In other words, become the biggest megabitch this side of the USSR.
And I can't blame them. It all comes down to what kind of man women really desire and respond to... A man who stands out. A man who isn't afraid to be different, who isn't afraid to be himself and let the people around him see it. A true alpha male.
What woman wants just another one of the guys? Do you want just any woman, or do you want someone who stands out?
So please for everyone's sake...
Ask something you actually would want to be asked. Stop agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth or constantly complimenting her on her looks. Start embracing your distinct qualities. How is she going to see that you're a unique, little snowflake if you're acting just like the other tools out there? And stop saying the identical lines you used with the last girl you approached!
Don't those guys get bored saying the exact same things to each woman they see? I guess not...
But you're different, you're an alpha male. You're from a different breed of men. You stand out among all other men...
So prove it!
Ryan
The Professors
I was down in Toronto, meeting up with an old friend, when we decided to grab a few drinks at a bar close by. Now my friend over the last few years has transformed herself into quite the cutie and when we ended up grabbing a booth to chat in privacy, we were ambushed by a truckload of chodes. One after the other. It was like they were each in line, quietly biding their time until the dude ahead of them screwed up and it was finally their turn to strikeout.
At this moment, you're probably wondering why I didn't AMOG the shit out of them, make them look like creeps and get back to my conversation.
Guess what... I didn't have to!
Each guy, just like those before him, preceded to fail miserably on their own accord. I didn't have to do anything. And as the body count piled up, I noticed their lifetime shortened too. My friend had quickly put up her bitch shield, ready to shut down the next chode in line.
Now this is a ripe example of why you should start building a group of hot girls who are just friends. Not only will they want to help wing you when you go out, but you'll also learn so much from simply being around them that you'll instantly see major improvements in your interactions with other cute girls. In fact, this can boost your game so much, I want you to do this now... Like right now.
I'll wait...
Good! Now that we've got that aside, let's figure out what you can learn from my encounter with the chode attack.
After watching guys get shot down over and over and listening to my friend complain about how this happens to her wherever she goes, I want to reinforce something...
Stand out!
I'm not talking about looking like a clown with a fuzzy hat or wearing sunglasses at night. Don't even think of wearing goggles on your head unless your name is Scuba Steve or forever your new nickname shall be the underwater douchebag.
No my friend, you're an alpha male. You don't need to resort to these things to stand out. All you have to do is be different.
This weekend I watched gaggles of men poop out the same lines from their mouths...
"So you go here often?"
"You're so hot"
"Who lies more?"
Trust me, I'm not the only one sick of hearing these same lines. Women hate them! That's why they instantly become so cold. They don't want to be bothered with another loser spouting the same words some other guy said to her twenty minutes ago. Their solution... Get rid of this clueless dude as quickly as possible. In other words, become the biggest megabitch this side of the USSR.
And I can't blame them. It all comes down to what kind of man women really desire and respond to... A man who stands out. A man who isn't afraid to be different, who isn't afraid to be himself and let the people around him see it. A true alpha male.
What woman wants just another one of the guys? Do you want just any woman, or do you want someone who stands out?
So please for everyone's sake...
Ask something you actually would want to be asked. Stop agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth or constantly complimenting her on her looks. Start embracing your distinct qualities. How is she going to see that you're a unique, little snowflake if you're acting just like the other tools out there? And stop saying the identical lines you used with the last girl you approached!
Don't those guys get bored saying the exact same things to each woman they see? I guess not...
But you're different, you're an alpha male. You're from a different breed of men. You stand out among all other men...
So prove it!
Ryan
The Professors
Monday, November 29, 2010
Talking to Big Groups
Hey guys,
It's been a crazy weekend back in Toronto, and I haven't had time to pop in to post over the weekend. But now I'm back home so it's back to business!
Today we're talking about a huge but extremely complex aspects of game: Groups. It's happened to all of us. You're at the bar with your friends and you look over and see a group of 5 or 6 people, all gathered together, drinking, chatting, having their own party, and in the middle of it all, there she is. The bombshell. The turbo hunnie. The 10. She's surrounded by her friends, some are guys, some girls. You'd give anything to talk to her, but she seems completely inaccessible. So you blame it on bad timing, move on, and go settle for that 7 standing alone at the bar. Well guys, from this day forward, there's gonna be no more of that.
What most guys don't realize is that big groups of people are as approachable as other smaller groups or girls standing alone. There is just a different way of going about it. The idea behind this is that if you are a cool, approachable, fun guy, everyone is going to want in on that. It doesn't matter whether it's a girl standing around alone at the bar or a group of 6 people. If you're a cool, fun guy, anyone will want to meet you!
The key is to get everyone in on the fun. This is the idea most guys don't seem to grasp and because of this, they give up before trying. They think to themselves "Hey, how am I supposed to walk up to this girl and start talking to her while she's with her friends". That's a pretty good question, and the answer is you don't. The girl doesn't know you, and she does not want to be separated from the group at the moment, so instead of going against what she wants, approach the group as a whole first. Don't walk up to them as the reject that's obviously about to interrupt their conversation just so he can hit on one of their friends. Talk to everyone in the group; if there's a guy/guys in the group, talk to him too (I actually don't mind approaching the guy and talking to him briefly before I talk to the girls), and try not to give the girl you want way more attention than anyone else. This will make her feel more comfortable around you, as well as gaining the approval of her friends as well. Always remember, just approaching the group and talking to them instead of trying to pull the girl away from her friends turns you from the sketchy random guy at the bar to that cool, funny guy they met over the weekend who had all those great stories about the crazy adventures in his life. Now that sounds like the kind of guy the girl probably came out to find in the first place.
It's no harder to win over a group than it is a person one on one, the key is making sure you are trying to win over the group before the girl. Once you feel less like a stranger to the group, the girl will have gained some comfort with you and probably wants to get to know you a bit better anyways. On top of that, now that her friends see what a great guy you are, they aren't going to cockblock you with this girl, making everything go a lot smoother. Instead of viewing the friends as obstacles and antagonizing them, think of them as your personal cheerleaders, who are all helping you on your way to land this girl.
Just remember, what you have to show her and her friends is that she's getting just as much out of it as you are! Once you've done that, the rest is cake.
As always, if you guys have any questions about any topics we've covered or suggestions of things you want us to focus on, feel free to email us at alphaacademy@live.com.
Cheers boys,
Sasha
The Professors
It's been a crazy weekend back in Toronto, and I haven't had time to pop in to post over the weekend. But now I'm back home so it's back to business!
Today we're talking about a huge but extremely complex aspects of game: Groups. It's happened to all of us. You're at the bar with your friends and you look over and see a group of 5 or 6 people, all gathered together, drinking, chatting, having their own party, and in the middle of it all, there she is. The bombshell. The turbo hunnie. The 10. She's surrounded by her friends, some are guys, some girls. You'd give anything to talk to her, but she seems completely inaccessible. So you blame it on bad timing, move on, and go settle for that 7 standing alone at the bar. Well guys, from this day forward, there's gonna be no more of that.
What most guys don't realize is that big groups of people are as approachable as other smaller groups or girls standing alone. There is just a different way of going about it. The idea behind this is that if you are a cool, approachable, fun guy, everyone is going to want in on that. It doesn't matter whether it's a girl standing around alone at the bar or a group of 6 people. If you're a cool, fun guy, anyone will want to meet you!
The key is to get everyone in on the fun. This is the idea most guys don't seem to grasp and because of this, they give up before trying. They think to themselves "Hey, how am I supposed to walk up to this girl and start talking to her while she's with her friends". That's a pretty good question, and the answer is you don't. The girl doesn't know you, and she does not want to be separated from the group at the moment, so instead of going against what she wants, approach the group as a whole first. Don't walk up to them as the reject that's obviously about to interrupt their conversation just so he can hit on one of their friends. Talk to everyone in the group; if there's a guy/guys in the group, talk to him too (I actually don't mind approaching the guy and talking to him briefly before I talk to the girls), and try not to give the girl you want way more attention than anyone else. This will make her feel more comfortable around you, as well as gaining the approval of her friends as well. Always remember, just approaching the group and talking to them instead of trying to pull the girl away from her friends turns you from the sketchy random guy at the bar to that cool, funny guy they met over the weekend who had all those great stories about the crazy adventures in his life. Now that sounds like the kind of guy the girl probably came out to find in the first place.
It's no harder to win over a group than it is a person one on one, the key is making sure you are trying to win over the group before the girl. Once you feel less like a stranger to the group, the girl will have gained some comfort with you and probably wants to get to know you a bit better anyways. On top of that, now that her friends see what a great guy you are, they aren't going to cockblock you with this girl, making everything go a lot smoother. Instead of viewing the friends as obstacles and antagonizing them, think of them as your personal cheerleaders, who are all helping you on your way to land this girl.
Just remember, what you have to show her and her friends is that she's getting just as much out of it as you are! Once you've done that, the rest is cake.
As always, if you guys have any questions about any topics we've covered or suggestions of things you want us to focus on, feel free to email us at alphaacademy@live.com.
Cheers boys,
Sasha
The Professors
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Is She Into You?
Gather around guys, it's time for a talk about a key sticking point most college guys encounter on a regular basis.
You've managed to find a cute girl, started talking to her and now you're wondering how she feels about you. The problem is... How do you tell? You're not a mind reader. And you don't want to ask and risk looking like a tool. She's not going to tell you herself, so how do you figure out what's going on in that pretty little head of hers?
Most guys don't realize that women are constantly giving you hints on how they feel... You're just not looking in the right spots.
When a women is attracted to someone, she reveals subtle signs of her interest. These indicators can tell you when she's warming up to you, when it's time to eject, or even when it's time to seal the deal.
Now these signals vary and come in many forms, so you have to keep your eyes open. The good thing is most women exhibit the same basic signs. These include:
- Grooming (playing with hair, fussing with her clothes, touching her face)
- Eye contact
- Touching you and comfortable with you touching her
- Smiling, laughing, giggling
- Feet pointed towards you
- Leaning in towards you to speak or listen
- Playing along with your jokes
- Investing in the conversation
Don't expect a girl to do all of these things. If she is and you're in the bar still, you better start looking in your pockets for cab money. Generally it should take only three of these indicators to announce loud and clear... Make your move!
I say three because if she running her fingers through her hair, she may just be self conscious about her new hairstyle. But if she's playing with her hair, giggling and leaning in to hear what you have to say... You have the green light my friend.
Since women give these signals of their interest, they also give signals of their disinterest. These are signs that you have to allow her to become comfortable with your presence before she will start opening up with you. These can include:
- Not facing you
- Looking anywhere but at you
- Being unresponsive
- Avoid physical contact
- Crossed arms and other defensive body language
- Not contributing to the conversation
This is a lot to remember so I'll share with you guys a quick trick that you can use tonight to tell if that pretty lady is into or not.
During the conversation, while she's talking about her cats, simply look somewhere else. At your friends across the bar, the dancefloor, doesn't matter... Did her eyes follow yours? If she's interested in you, she will be paying attention to you and want to check out whatever you were just looking at.
Now that you can read any woman's mind, go out have some fun with it. Suddenly you'll be noticing that girl across the bar who's been scoping you out, smiling and playing with her hair the whole time...
Go make your move,
Ryan
The Professors
You've managed to find a cute girl, started talking to her and now you're wondering how she feels about you. The problem is... How do you tell? You're not a mind reader. And you don't want to ask and risk looking like a tool. She's not going to tell you herself, so how do you figure out what's going on in that pretty little head of hers?
Most guys don't realize that women are constantly giving you hints on how they feel... You're just not looking in the right spots.
When a women is attracted to someone, she reveals subtle signs of her interest. These indicators can tell you when she's warming up to you, when it's time to eject, or even when it's time to seal the deal.
Now these signals vary and come in many forms, so you have to keep your eyes open. The good thing is most women exhibit the same basic signs. These include:
- Grooming (playing with hair, fussing with her clothes, touching her face)
- Eye contact
- Touching you and comfortable with you touching her
- Smiling, laughing, giggling
- Feet pointed towards you
- Leaning in towards you to speak or listen
- Playing along with your jokes
- Investing in the conversation
Don't expect a girl to do all of these things. If she is and you're in the bar still, you better start looking in your pockets for cab money. Generally it should take only three of these indicators to announce loud and clear... Make your move!
I say three because if she running her fingers through her hair, she may just be self conscious about her new hairstyle. But if she's playing with her hair, giggling and leaning in to hear what you have to say... You have the green light my friend.
Since women give these signals of their interest, they also give signals of their disinterest. These are signs that you have to allow her to become comfortable with your presence before she will start opening up with you. These can include:
- Not facing you
- Looking anywhere but at you
- Being unresponsive
- Avoid physical contact
- Crossed arms and other defensive body language
- Not contributing to the conversation
This is a lot to remember so I'll share with you guys a quick trick that you can use tonight to tell if that pretty lady is into or not.
During the conversation, while she's talking about her cats, simply look somewhere else. At your friends across the bar, the dancefloor, doesn't matter... Did her eyes follow yours? If she's interested in you, she will be paying attention to you and want to check out whatever you were just looking at.
Now that you can read any woman's mind, go out have some fun with it. Suddenly you'll be noticing that girl across the bar who's been scoping you out, smiling and playing with her hair the whole time...
Go make your move,
Ryan
The Professors
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
The 3 Second Rule
Hey guys,
Today we're tackling a big issue, maybe the biggest, that guys run into when talking to girls: The approach, or more specifically, approach anxiety.
Approach anxiety is the feeling you get when your body feels like its about to step out of its comfort zone. It's that voice in your head that suddenly starts listing every possible bad situation you might bump into if you decide to walk over and talk to this girl. I've got big news for you, boys... Approach anxiety affects us all: The newcomers, the guys who have gotten good over time, even the naturals. The only difference between them is how they deal with it. This is the purpose of the 3 second rule.
The 3 second rule sounds very simple, but it will immensely reduce the amount of approach anxiety you get before talking to a girl. The rule is simple. The time between seeing the girl and deciding you want to go for her and you actually talking to her should be no more than 3 seconds. Follow this rule first and foremost, before the "what do I do's" and "what do I say's", and you will notice that you come off much more alpha straight from the approach. This is because you haven't worked out the perfect execution in your head, it doesn't look set up, or canned or anything, because it's not. It's natural. The funny thing is that after a few tries, and if you know one or two good openers (if you can't think of anything else), you'll notice that you'll be getting much better responses. Game is all about learning to be quick on your feet, and nothing puts that to the test like the 3 second rule.
The second part of the 3 second rule says that 3 seconds after entering the bar/club/party, you should be talking to someone. Anyone. Doesn't matter who and doesn't matter what you say. Enter the venue in a social mood, be ready to meet new friends and make memories, and don't waste time moping around finding the nearest corner to stand in. Not only does this reduce approach anxiety, but it doesn't ever give the chance for people to see you standing alone. As soon as you walk in, you are the life of the party, and everyone will want to get in on the fun! And that's before they hear anything you have to say, that's just the sheer fact that you don't hesitate before talking to a beautiful girl. It shows that this is nothing new for you, you are used to this, you are not intimidated by them.
The 3 second rule, believe it or not, will actually make your life much easier, and following it will save you a lot of headaches thinking about exactly how the perfect routine between you and her would go. Don't ever forget, you're game is a 10, so it's gonna go well no matter what ;)
My challenge to you is the next time you go out, just try to follow the 3 second rule the whole night. Don't even bother judging whether you are more successful with girls. That's secondary. The first thing you should think about is which night did you have more fun? How many more people did you meet? Which night did you take more from?
Give it a shot, and tell us how it goes! Memorize one or two openers that you know very well that can spark up a conversation and try to get to know as many people as you can while following the 3 second rule. If you want to get a more in depth look at getting over approach anxiety and the 3 second rule's effectiveness with that, email us at alphaacademy@live.com
Happy Hunting boys!
Sasha
The Professors
Today we're tackling a big issue, maybe the biggest, that guys run into when talking to girls: The approach, or more specifically, approach anxiety.
Approach anxiety is the feeling you get when your body feels like its about to step out of its comfort zone. It's that voice in your head that suddenly starts listing every possible bad situation you might bump into if you decide to walk over and talk to this girl. I've got big news for you, boys... Approach anxiety affects us all: The newcomers, the guys who have gotten good over time, even the naturals. The only difference between them is how they deal with it. This is the purpose of the 3 second rule.
The 3 second rule sounds very simple, but it will immensely reduce the amount of approach anxiety you get before talking to a girl. The rule is simple. The time between seeing the girl and deciding you want to go for her and you actually talking to her should be no more than 3 seconds. Follow this rule first and foremost, before the "what do I do's" and "what do I say's", and you will notice that you come off much more alpha straight from the approach. This is because you haven't worked out the perfect execution in your head, it doesn't look set up, or canned or anything, because it's not. It's natural. The funny thing is that after a few tries, and if you know one or two good openers (if you can't think of anything else), you'll notice that you'll be getting much better responses. Game is all about learning to be quick on your feet, and nothing puts that to the test like the 3 second rule.
The second part of the 3 second rule says that 3 seconds after entering the bar/club/party, you should be talking to someone. Anyone. Doesn't matter who and doesn't matter what you say. Enter the venue in a social mood, be ready to meet new friends and make memories, and don't waste time moping around finding the nearest corner to stand in. Not only does this reduce approach anxiety, but it doesn't ever give the chance for people to see you standing alone. As soon as you walk in, you are the life of the party, and everyone will want to get in on the fun! And that's before they hear anything you have to say, that's just the sheer fact that you don't hesitate before talking to a beautiful girl. It shows that this is nothing new for you, you are used to this, you are not intimidated by them.
The 3 second rule, believe it or not, will actually make your life much easier, and following it will save you a lot of headaches thinking about exactly how the perfect routine between you and her would go. Don't ever forget, you're game is a 10, so it's gonna go well no matter what ;)
My challenge to you is the next time you go out, just try to follow the 3 second rule the whole night. Don't even bother judging whether you are more successful with girls. That's secondary. The first thing you should think about is which night did you have more fun? How many more people did you meet? Which night did you take more from?
Give it a shot, and tell us how it goes! Memorize one or two openers that you know very well that can spark up a conversation and try to get to know as many people as you can while following the 3 second rule. If you want to get a more in depth look at getting over approach anxiety and the 3 second rule's effectiveness with that, email us at alphaacademy@live.com
Happy Hunting boys!
Sasha
The Professors
Monday, November 22, 2010
Awesome Daygame Opener
Hey guys,
It's an afternoon shot of alpha for your day, so get psyched and let's get going.
Today I'm hooking you guys up with an awesome daygame opener I've been refining the last few weeks. With winter approaching fast and all the pretty girls retreating to their homes to hibernate, this is going to be one of the last weeks we'll be seeing a plethora of approachable ladies on and around campus. And if you're looking for a couple cuties to cozy up with over the holidays, even more reason to get your campus wheels going...
Now normally I'm not a big fan of canned openers. They can be uninspired and get old real fast. Instead, I like to use canned openers only in certain cases. Usually I start out students new to the seduction community with canned openers so they can focus on the more important obstacles. Other than that, canned material can be good if you have a brain fart and can't manage to improvise at that moment. Generally though, I like to use canned material to spice things up and try something different out. So let's have some fun and get cracking...
Now the thing that I love about this opener is that it's semi-direct, playful, and builds a little tension. And although most pickup teachers will tell you different, being direct is NOT a bad thing. There are just some things you have to keep in mind when you do it...
1. Always be playful. Fun, smiling, playful guys get laid... That's why they're having fun, playing around, and smiling. This also draws people to you since they want in on the fun.
2. Say something different. If you're saying the exact same thing as the last twenty guys, why do you think she's going to be receptive to you when she wasn't to them?
3. Always takeaway. Build in some sort of subtle neg (backhanded compliment) or takeaway in your opener so she's left wanting to regain her status in your eyes.
So here it is boys...
You: Hey, I just wanted to come say hi. Actually I've got a personal policy to say hi to the prettiest girl I see all day.
*Now pause for a second*
She's going to be readying herself to pass judgement on you as any typical AFC so you can't let her speak, just yet...
You: I figured I'd let you know you got second place.
*As you say this flash her that sly smirk of yours and let it simmer*
The beauty in this opener is that you're allowing her to build herself up in her head before ripping away the carpet from underneath her. No one wants to accept that they're great, but that you've seen better. It's a wonderful way of making the woman want to reestablish her value in your mind. Immediately the frame of the conversation becomes her validating herself to you.
From this point, I like to transition rather quickly by mentioning something I observed about her outfit, whether it be a necklace or ring, and get her to make up a really cool background story for it... Usually involving ninjas and a trip to Japan.
Well that's it for today boys! I want you guys to go out on campus this week and cause some mayhem with your new opener. Try it out, play around with it and make it yours. Then come back here to comment on your success and any difficulties you experienced. If you want instant feedback, email me at alphaacademy@live.com
Enjoy and good luck men,
Ryan
The Professors
It's an afternoon shot of alpha for your day, so get psyched and let's get going.
Today I'm hooking you guys up with an awesome daygame opener I've been refining the last few weeks. With winter approaching fast and all the pretty girls retreating to their homes to hibernate, this is going to be one of the last weeks we'll be seeing a plethora of approachable ladies on and around campus. And if you're looking for a couple cuties to cozy up with over the holidays, even more reason to get your campus wheels going...
Now normally I'm not a big fan of canned openers. They can be uninspired and get old real fast. Instead, I like to use canned openers only in certain cases. Usually I start out students new to the seduction community with canned openers so they can focus on the more important obstacles. Other than that, canned material can be good if you have a brain fart and can't manage to improvise at that moment. Generally though, I like to use canned material to spice things up and try something different out. So let's have some fun and get cracking...
Now the thing that I love about this opener is that it's semi-direct, playful, and builds a little tension. And although most pickup teachers will tell you different, being direct is NOT a bad thing. There are just some things you have to keep in mind when you do it...
1. Always be playful. Fun, smiling, playful guys get laid... That's why they're having fun, playing around, and smiling. This also draws people to you since they want in on the fun.
2. Say something different. If you're saying the exact same thing as the last twenty guys, why do you think she's going to be receptive to you when she wasn't to them?
3. Always takeaway. Build in some sort of subtle neg (backhanded compliment) or takeaway in your opener so she's left wanting to regain her status in your eyes.
So here it is boys...
You: Hey, I just wanted to come say hi. Actually I've got a personal policy to say hi to the prettiest girl I see all day.
*Now pause for a second*
She's going to be readying herself to pass judgement on you as any typical AFC so you can't let her speak, just yet...
You: I figured I'd let you know you got second place.
*As you say this flash her that sly smirk of yours and let it simmer*
The beauty in this opener is that you're allowing her to build herself up in her head before ripping away the carpet from underneath her. No one wants to accept that they're great, but that you've seen better. It's a wonderful way of making the woman want to reestablish her value in your mind. Immediately the frame of the conversation becomes her validating herself to you.
From this point, I like to transition rather quickly by mentioning something I observed about her outfit, whether it be a necklace or ring, and get her to make up a really cool background story for it... Usually involving ninjas and a trip to Japan.
Well that's it for today boys! I want you guys to go out on campus this week and cause some mayhem with your new opener. Try it out, play around with it and make it yours. Then come back here to comment on your success and any difficulties you experienced. If you want instant feedback, email me at alphaacademy@live.com
Enjoy and good luck men,
Ryan
The Professors
Friday, November 19, 2010
Out of Your League
Hey boys,
Class is in session and tonight we're having a little chat about the 9s and 10s of the world. Now I'm not talking about just any attractive girls. I'm talking about a select group of ladies who have all those superficial qualities that us men love. The headturners. The bombshells. The turbo hunnies...
There's a hometown friend of mine who has the belief that you shouldn't go for these girls. All throughout high school he would avoid these stunning girls to settle for whatever else he could find. Now if you're anything like me, you're asking if he was scared, maybe insecure, or even gay. It was actually nothing of the sort. His reasoning... These girls were simply out of his league.
He thought that his looks, his cash, or lack thereof restricted him to a certain breed of women.
Trust me, I didn't have any problem with it. We would go to parties all the time and as my friend was sticking to his range of girls, I would be free to entertain myself with all the megababes.
Now I'm no Brad Pitt or Zac Efron and I definitely didn't have money to throw around in high school. So what separated me from my friend? Absolutely nothing whatsoever... Except my mentality.
Now I want to assign a small mission for you guys this weekend. One of the next few nights go out, have an awesome time, throw in a dash of recklessness, but most importantly... Take a moment to pause. If you're at a bar, a house party, or a club, survey your surroundings. Observe the guys with the hotties hanging off of them. Do they really have the movie star looks? Or are they actually just average looking guys like you and me? Yeah, I know.
Despite the common misconceptions... Leagues do not exist.
I'm sure you've had those friends. We all have them. You mention something about the sexy blonde by the pool tables or the stunning brunette across the bar. Immediately your friend blurts out that she WAY out of your league. In fact, you don't even have a shot.
Now are you the kind of male that would just accept it and look for someone more "appropriate" for you? Or instead are you the man that views that as a challenge? An irrelevant obstacle on your way to ultimate glory and success with this perfect 10...
You better have chosen the second one.
Aim high,
Ryan
The Professors
Class is in session and tonight we're having a little chat about the 9s and 10s of the world. Now I'm not talking about just any attractive girls. I'm talking about a select group of ladies who have all those superficial qualities that us men love. The headturners. The bombshells. The turbo hunnies...
There's a hometown friend of mine who has the belief that you shouldn't go for these girls. All throughout high school he would avoid these stunning girls to settle for whatever else he could find. Now if you're anything like me, you're asking if he was scared, maybe insecure, or even gay. It was actually nothing of the sort. His reasoning... These girls were simply out of his league.
He thought that his looks, his cash, or lack thereof restricted him to a certain breed of women.
Trust me, I didn't have any problem with it. We would go to parties all the time and as my friend was sticking to his range of girls, I would be free to entertain myself with all the megababes.
Now I'm no Brad Pitt or Zac Efron and I definitely didn't have money to throw around in high school. So what separated me from my friend? Absolutely nothing whatsoever... Except my mentality.
Now I want to assign a small mission for you guys this weekend. One of the next few nights go out, have an awesome time, throw in a dash of recklessness, but most importantly... Take a moment to pause. If you're at a bar, a house party, or a club, survey your surroundings. Observe the guys with the hotties hanging off of them. Do they really have the movie star looks? Or are they actually just average looking guys like you and me? Yeah, I know.
Despite the common misconceptions... Leagues do not exist.
I'm sure you've had those friends. We all have them. You mention something about the sexy blonde by the pool tables or the stunning brunette across the bar. Immediately your friend blurts out that she WAY out of your league. In fact, you don't even have a shot.
Now are you the kind of male that would just accept it and look for someone more "appropriate" for you? Or instead are you the man that views that as a challenge? An irrelevant obstacle on your way to ultimate glory and success with this perfect 10...
You better have chosen the second one.
Aim high,
Ryan
The Professors
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
What is game, for you?
Hey guys,
I've been going out a lot recently with a couple different groups of friends. It's been a wild few nights, yet it's left me thinking about a few things.
Within these groups, I have two very similar, close friends. They both love going out, meeting new people and having outrageous, story-worthy times. In fact, they both are so alike that although they don't know it, they have the same sticking points.
Now you may think I'm about to go into common sticking points and how to work through them, but I'm not. We'll be focusing on that later on this week. Instead, I'd like to point out where these two buddies of mine differ.
One of my friends, let's call him P, gets laid. The other, let's call him S, doesn't. Now I'm not saying that he doesn't ever find a girl who will let him make his move. He's had the odd, random hook up, but my point is he's not the one choosing. And being the one choosing, seeing something you want and just taking it, that's what being a man's all about...
The other major difference between my two friends is their view of game. S views it as a series of predetermined words put together to get a woman attracted to you. He sees it as a fake personality you can put on to sleep with women.
My friend P has completely different views. P started out viewing game as a way to project his personality. A way to be himself, but also come off more confident, charming and magnetic to anyone in all sorts of social circles. Recently, it's become a part of who he is. He's still the same hilarious guy who started this journey, instead he's now able to confidently show women his attractive qualities. Game is his new natural way of displaying his great, natural charisma.
I guess the big question I'm asking is... What is game, for you?
Over and Out,
Ryan
The Professors
I've been going out a lot recently with a couple different groups of friends. It's been a wild few nights, yet it's left me thinking about a few things.
Within these groups, I have two very similar, close friends. They both love going out, meeting new people and having outrageous, story-worthy times. In fact, they both are so alike that although they don't know it, they have the same sticking points.
Now you may think I'm about to go into common sticking points and how to work through them, but I'm not. We'll be focusing on that later on this week. Instead, I'd like to point out where these two buddies of mine differ.
One of my friends, let's call him P, gets laid. The other, let's call him S, doesn't. Now I'm not saying that he doesn't ever find a girl who will let him make his move. He's had the odd, random hook up, but my point is he's not the one choosing. And being the one choosing, seeing something you want and just taking it, that's what being a man's all about...
The other major difference between my two friends is their view of game. S views it as a series of predetermined words put together to get a woman attracted to you. He sees it as a fake personality you can put on to sleep with women.
My friend P has completely different views. P started out viewing game as a way to project his personality. A way to be himself, but also come off more confident, charming and magnetic to anyone in all sorts of social circles. Recently, it's become a part of who he is. He's still the same hilarious guy who started this journey, instead he's now able to confidently show women his attractive qualities. Game is his new natural way of displaying his great, natural charisma.
I guess the big question I'm asking is... What is game, for you?
Over and Out,
Ryan
The Professors
Monday, November 15, 2010
The 5 Questions Game
Hey guys,
Got another classic for you today. This is a fun little game to play with the girl, and works pretty much any time during your conversation. Keeps the conversation flowing and keeps it light and playful. Sometimes it can even net you a little reward (like a drink) if you play it right. Here's how it goes:
Tell the girl you want to play a game called the 5 questions game. Tell her the game is really easy, and that all you do is ask her 5 questions. All she has to do is answer all 5 questions wrong. If she can do that, she wins. If she answers one right, you win. Then you tell her that to make things interesting, you'll bet something on it. Bet whatever you want, I like to go with a drink or something like that. NOTE: This is not the time to try to squeeze her number out of her. Don't be the creeper that uses every little trick and conversation thread to try and get a kiss or a phone number. Instead, keep it light, something that you bet just for the sake of making things interesting (this is why a drink is effective).
Once she agrees, ask her 2 questions (the first two don't matter, they're just a set up to get her confident that you aren't trying to trick her). Something like "What's your name?" and "Where do you go to school?" will suffice. For the 3rd question, ask "What's a famous type of male cologne?". She will answer something made up, but when she does, tease that her answer probably is some kind of famous cologne in Sweden or something. The idea behind this is to get her mind off of the game for a second. Once you guys are done laughing about the new line of "Badstench" cologne in Sweden, ask her "Which question are we on?". Now at this point, she might slip up and say 4th, then the game is over and you win. But sometimes she'll catch that and will give you the wrong answer. At this point you act like she got you, and that she won. Start to shake your head in frustration and say to her (almost as a side comment) "Oh man, have you played this game before or something?" and she'll obviously say something like "NO!" at which point you smile, tell her that was your 5th question and claim your drink. Clever, isn't it?
So a quick recap of the 5 questions you ask:
1. What's your name?
2. Where do you go to school?
3. What's a famous type of cologne
(Start talking about the cologne for a second)
4. What question are we on?
5. Oh man, have you played this before or something?
Give it a shot and tell us about your success in the comments. The great thing is even if you lose the game, it's not like the conversation is a flop. Congratulate the girl and stack forward onto a different topic. Keep in mind that even if she wins, you still get her alone for a bit while you two get a drink. So really, it's win-win. A great one to keep in the playbook...
Cheers boys! Happy hunting.
Sasha
The Professors
Got another classic for you today. This is a fun little game to play with the girl, and works pretty much any time during your conversation. Keeps the conversation flowing and keeps it light and playful. Sometimes it can even net you a little reward (like a drink) if you play it right. Here's how it goes:
Tell the girl you want to play a game called the 5 questions game. Tell her the game is really easy, and that all you do is ask her 5 questions. All she has to do is answer all 5 questions wrong. If she can do that, she wins. If she answers one right, you win. Then you tell her that to make things interesting, you'll bet something on it. Bet whatever you want, I like to go with a drink or something like that. NOTE: This is not the time to try to squeeze her number out of her. Don't be the creeper that uses every little trick and conversation thread to try and get a kiss or a phone number. Instead, keep it light, something that you bet just for the sake of making things interesting (this is why a drink is effective).
Once she agrees, ask her 2 questions (the first two don't matter, they're just a set up to get her confident that you aren't trying to trick her). Something like "What's your name?" and "Where do you go to school?" will suffice. For the 3rd question, ask "What's a famous type of male cologne?". She will answer something made up, but when she does, tease that her answer probably is some kind of famous cologne in Sweden or something. The idea behind this is to get her mind off of the game for a second. Once you guys are done laughing about the new line of "Badstench" cologne in Sweden, ask her "Which question are we on?". Now at this point, she might slip up and say 4th, then the game is over and you win. But sometimes she'll catch that and will give you the wrong answer. At this point you act like she got you, and that she won. Start to shake your head in frustration and say to her (almost as a side comment) "Oh man, have you played this game before or something?" and she'll obviously say something like "NO!" at which point you smile, tell her that was your 5th question and claim your drink. Clever, isn't it?
So a quick recap of the 5 questions you ask:
1. What's your name?
2. Where do you go to school?
3. What's a famous type of cologne
(Start talking about the cologne for a second)
4. What question are we on?
5. Oh man, have you played this before or something?
Give it a shot and tell us about your success in the comments. The great thing is even if you lose the game, it's not like the conversation is a flop. Congratulate the girl and stack forward onto a different topic. Keep in mind that even if she wins, you still get her alone for a bit while you two get a drink. So really, it's win-win. A great one to keep in the playbook...
Cheers boys! Happy hunting.
Sasha
The Professors
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Real Life Example of the Cube Game
Hey guys, if you haven't read the post on the Cube Game yet, I would recommend you do that first so you have a general idea of what is going on here. You can find it here: http://bit.ly/a18vOi.
If you have read it though, here is a real life example of the cube game which I used while out with some friends a few weeks ago. I had just gotten the girl alone and we were talking about what each of us were doing in school, jobs, etc. Basically just fluff. So to speed things up, I decided to throw in the cube game:
Me (playfully): You know, I bet you I already know everything there is to know about you. I've got an idea. Let's play a game.
Her: Haha, ok fine, what game?
Me: I call it the cube game. It's very simple, you just have to imagine the things I tell you to imagine, deal?
Her: Deal!
Me: Ok, imagine a cube. Doesn't matter what kind of cube, doesn't matter if it exists in real life or if it doesn't. Any cube. Got it?
Her: Yeah
Me: How big is the cube?
Her: Big! Like as big as a house
Me: Oh boy (I playfully rolled my eyes at her here).. Alright, fair enough.
Her: What?!
Me: Nothing, don't worry about it. You'll see, be patient. Next question, is the cube transparent?
Her: Alright fine, yes it is
Me: What colour is it?
Her: It's white.
Me: (chuckle) I thought so... Well is it on the ground or floating in the air?
Her: It's on the ground.
Me: Ok, fair enough, I know enough about that. Well now there's a ladder in the situation. Where is it in relation to the cube?
Her: It's leaning on the cube going all the way to the top
Me: Is it a tall ladder with many rungs?
Her: Yeah, lots!
Me: Hard to climb?
Her: Yeah it would be.
Me: Alright, well now there are flowers in this little scenario. Where are they?
Her: Everywhere! All over the place!
Me: Wow, well are they clustered together or just scattered about.
Her: It's just all white flowers scattered all over the place
Me: Haha... Interesting answer... (I paused here for a few seconds)
Her: Watch, you're gonna tell me I'm like a psycho or something
Me: I'm leaning towards serial killer actually (I lightly shoved the girl)
Her: Ok go on.
Me: Alright, well now there's a horse. Describe the horse.
Her: Well it's really big, strong, just chilling by the cube.
Me: Are you anywhere near it?
Her: Yeah I'm stroking it's mane.
Me: Obviously, I would've guessed as much. Well I've learned a lot about you know (I didn't think I had time to go over the thunderstorm with her so I just left it out).
Her: Well I can't wait to hear this.
My description of her: Well, I'd say you're a confident girl, really sure of yourself a lot of the time. Have a set of firm beliefs you hold true to yourself (All just focused around the idea of the big cube).
I'd also say that you find yourself very easygoing, easy to meet and be friends with. You like to be open with people and really let them get close to you (This comes from the idea of the transparent cube).
I'd also say you see yourself as goodhearted, you like the idea of helping people and doing good things for people. People close to you would probably describe you as a kind person first and foremost (The idea of the white cube, I figured white and "good" were pretty related).
You see yourself as down to earth and very realistic about things (Cube on the ground).
As for your goals, you have a large number of goals you would like to achieve, and they are very important to you (tall ladder, leaning on the cube).
You think your goal are difficult to achieve, but not impossible, and you feel that you can achieve them (ladder is difficult to climb).
As for your friends, you have many of them, with similar personalities and you like them to surround you in every part of your life. You don't hang out in various cliques but rather have your own "group" (lots of flowers everywhere, scattered all over the place, look very similar).
And now the most important part, your ideal guy. You want a guy you can be dependant with, that you can take care of, and that will above all, protect you. He is probably calm, like you, but not shy or timid. You probably like the strong silent type (corresponds to her description of the horse). So how did I do? Was I close?
At this point, just like the other 95% of the time I've run this routine, her mouth was wide open and she had a pretty telling grin on her face. Another successful running of the cube game.
Hope this gave you some insight into this very interesting game which I described in my last post, as well as cold reading as a whole, which is a great tool to make use of to add that little bit of intrigue and mystery to the conversation. She'll probably ask you how you did that, and at this point you can decide if you want to impress her and explain the game or keep that little bit of mystery. The result is great either way. Good luck with this one boys.
Again, if you haven't read a description of how the game works, you can find it here: http://bit.ly/a18vOi.
Cheers,
Sasha
The Professors
If you have read it though, here is a real life example of the cube game which I used while out with some friends a few weeks ago. I had just gotten the girl alone and we were talking about what each of us were doing in school, jobs, etc. Basically just fluff. So to speed things up, I decided to throw in the cube game:
Me (playfully): You know, I bet you I already know everything there is to know about you. I've got an idea. Let's play a game.
Her: Haha, ok fine, what game?
Me: I call it the cube game. It's very simple, you just have to imagine the things I tell you to imagine, deal?
Her: Deal!
Me: Ok, imagine a cube. Doesn't matter what kind of cube, doesn't matter if it exists in real life or if it doesn't. Any cube. Got it?
Her: Yeah
Me: How big is the cube?
Her: Big! Like as big as a house
Me: Oh boy (I playfully rolled my eyes at her here).. Alright, fair enough.
Her: What?!
Me: Nothing, don't worry about it. You'll see, be patient. Next question, is the cube transparent?
Her: Alright fine, yes it is
Me: What colour is it?
Her: It's white.
Me: (chuckle) I thought so... Well is it on the ground or floating in the air?
Her: It's on the ground.
Me: Ok, fair enough, I know enough about that. Well now there's a ladder in the situation. Where is it in relation to the cube?
Her: It's leaning on the cube going all the way to the top
Me: Is it a tall ladder with many rungs?
Her: Yeah, lots!
Me: Hard to climb?
Her: Yeah it would be.
Me: Alright, well now there are flowers in this little scenario. Where are they?
Her: Everywhere! All over the place!
Me: Wow, well are they clustered together or just scattered about.
Her: It's just all white flowers scattered all over the place
Me: Haha... Interesting answer... (I paused here for a few seconds)
Her: Watch, you're gonna tell me I'm like a psycho or something
Me: I'm leaning towards serial killer actually (I lightly shoved the girl)
Her: Ok go on.
Me: Alright, well now there's a horse. Describe the horse.
Her: Well it's really big, strong, just chilling by the cube.
Me: Are you anywhere near it?
Her: Yeah I'm stroking it's mane.
Me: Obviously, I would've guessed as much. Well I've learned a lot about you know (I didn't think I had time to go over the thunderstorm with her so I just left it out).
Her: Well I can't wait to hear this.
My description of her: Well, I'd say you're a confident girl, really sure of yourself a lot of the time. Have a set of firm beliefs you hold true to yourself (All just focused around the idea of the big cube).
I'd also say that you find yourself very easygoing, easy to meet and be friends with. You like to be open with people and really let them get close to you (This comes from the idea of the transparent cube).
I'd also say you see yourself as goodhearted, you like the idea of helping people and doing good things for people. People close to you would probably describe you as a kind person first and foremost (The idea of the white cube, I figured white and "good" were pretty related).
You see yourself as down to earth and very realistic about things (Cube on the ground).
As for your goals, you have a large number of goals you would like to achieve, and they are very important to you (tall ladder, leaning on the cube).
You think your goal are difficult to achieve, but not impossible, and you feel that you can achieve them (ladder is difficult to climb).
As for your friends, you have many of them, with similar personalities and you like them to surround you in every part of your life. You don't hang out in various cliques but rather have your own "group" (lots of flowers everywhere, scattered all over the place, look very similar).
And now the most important part, your ideal guy. You want a guy you can be dependant with, that you can take care of, and that will above all, protect you. He is probably calm, like you, but not shy or timid. You probably like the strong silent type (corresponds to her description of the horse). So how did I do? Was I close?
At this point, just like the other 95% of the time I've run this routine, her mouth was wide open and she had a pretty telling grin on her face. Another successful running of the cube game.
Hope this gave you some insight into this very interesting game which I described in my last post, as well as cold reading as a whole, which is a great tool to make use of to add that little bit of intrigue and mystery to the conversation. She'll probably ask you how you did that, and at this point you can decide if you want to impress her and explain the game or keep that little bit of mystery. The result is great either way. Good luck with this one boys.
Again, if you haven't read a description of how the game works, you can find it here: http://bit.ly/a18vOi.
Cheers,
Sasha
The Professors
The Cube Game (Cold Reading)
Hey guys,
I wanted to share one of my favorite little routines for building the girl's attraction. It's called the Cube game. This game is an interesting little mindfuck that really demonstrates a lot of social value. Being able to read into somebody's personality is really a good indicator of social intelligence, which is an incredibly attractive quality to girls. Now of course, you don't REALLY know any of these things, but the key to coldreading is you have a general direction to go in based on what the person says and you improvise from there, speaking in vague truths that apply to anyone if you really think about it. Try pulling this if you've got some time alone with the girl. It takes up a bit of time so be aware of any potential interruptions. Give it a shot and after some practice, you'll see your girl's jaw dropping to the floor before you're even done. Here's how it goes:
You tell the person to imagine a cube, doesn't matter what kind of cube. Doesn't have to be a cube in real life, but it can be. From there you ask them to describe the cube, then you add in certain items into the scenario. Specifically, you add in a ladder, flowers, a horse and a thunderstorm. Every detail which they give about each item corresponds to how they view a certain aspect of their own lives. So knowing what to make of the details actually teaches you a lot about the person. You think about each detail they gave and tell them about themselves.
So detail by detail, you learn about the person. Here's what each item and detail corresponds to and what questions you should ask about each one:
The cube: Their personality
Size of the cube = Their confidence. If they say they have a small cube, tell them they are reserved, and do not strive for attention all the time, but rather have a self confidence to them. If a big cube, tell them they are confident and have a high regard for themselves.
Transparency = How easy they are to get to know and understand. So an opaque cube means they are difficult to get a grasp of and understand. They see themselves as complex.
Color = This is where you can be a little creative, just say what the color means to you when you imagine it. As long as the characteristics are good, the girl will generally go along with it (eg. Red is fiery and exciting, blue is calm, laid back, yellow is friendly, etc)
Is it floating/on the ground? = Is the girl an optimist/does she have a sunny disposition or is she a realistic person (notice that neither of these things are negative. This is the key to running the cube game successfully. As long as they both sound like positive qualities, the girl will naturally believe you when you tell her she is either of these things)
The Ladder = Their goals in life
How tall is the ladder = How difficult they see their goals in life to be
Where is it in relation to the cube = How important are your life's goals to you? Are they guidelines or objectives? Close/leaning on the cube means important to them, far/lying down means they don't let their goals become a huge burden on their lives
Would they be able to climb it = Can they see themselves achieving the goals
Flowers = Friends
Many or few flowers = Many or few friends
In clusters or randomly scattered = Do you hang out with many different groups of people or are all your friends more like one big cluster.
Different types of flowers or all the same = Friends with many different types of people or usually a certain type of personality attracts you
Horse = Ideal guy
How close are you to the horse = Is he dependant/independant
What is the horse doing? Is he calm/excited = Basic description of the guy
Are you petting/touching/on the horse? = Is she caring, will she want to care for her guy?
Thunderstorm = Problems in life
Is the thunderstorm close to the cube? = How much does she let her problems interfere with her life
Is it a destructive storm or is it just a bit of rain and thunder? = How well does she deal with her problems. If the storm is fucking shit up, she lets her problems really affect her life.
After some practice, you should be able to incorporate your own questions about these things and improvise from there. Remember to use all of the details she gives you. As long as you use positive connotations and relatively vague descriptions, the girl will be genuinely convinced you are psychic. Obviously don't tell her anything about herself until you've run through all the questions so she does not realize how you are figuring these things out. The cube game requires a fairly good memory to play, and you must be able to think on your feet, but the truth is, after some practice, you'll know what to say to each and every question. It seems like a complicated routine at first but in reality it's very simple. I'd recommend trying it on one of your buddies first, it works the same for guys and girls really (except for the horse, you should practice that with girls). Also, obviously there are times when you don't have the time to through the whole routine, so feel free to eliminate certain items. I'd say the most important are the cube and the horse, use the others as time allows.
I'll be posting an example of the cube from real life that I did recently shortly to give you a better idea of what it looks like in a real exchange between two people.
Cheers boys,
Sasha
The Professors
I wanted to share one of my favorite little routines for building the girl's attraction. It's called the Cube game. This game is an interesting little mindfuck that really demonstrates a lot of social value. Being able to read into somebody's personality is really a good indicator of social intelligence, which is an incredibly attractive quality to girls. Now of course, you don't REALLY know any of these things, but the key to coldreading is you have a general direction to go in based on what the person says and you improvise from there, speaking in vague truths that apply to anyone if you really think about it. Try pulling this if you've got some time alone with the girl. It takes up a bit of time so be aware of any potential interruptions. Give it a shot and after some practice, you'll see your girl's jaw dropping to the floor before you're even done. Here's how it goes:
You tell the person to imagine a cube, doesn't matter what kind of cube. Doesn't have to be a cube in real life, but it can be. From there you ask them to describe the cube, then you add in certain items into the scenario. Specifically, you add in a ladder, flowers, a horse and a thunderstorm. Every detail which they give about each item corresponds to how they view a certain aspect of their own lives. So knowing what to make of the details actually teaches you a lot about the person. You think about each detail they gave and tell them about themselves.
So detail by detail, you learn about the person. Here's what each item and detail corresponds to and what questions you should ask about each one:
The cube: Their personality
Size of the cube = Their confidence. If they say they have a small cube, tell them they are reserved, and do not strive for attention all the time, but rather have a self confidence to them. If a big cube, tell them they are confident and have a high regard for themselves.
Transparency = How easy they are to get to know and understand. So an opaque cube means they are difficult to get a grasp of and understand. They see themselves as complex.
Color = This is where you can be a little creative, just say what the color means to you when you imagine it. As long as the characteristics are good, the girl will generally go along with it (eg. Red is fiery and exciting, blue is calm, laid back, yellow is friendly, etc)
Is it floating/on the ground? = Is the girl an optimist/does she have a sunny disposition or is she a realistic person (notice that neither of these things are negative. This is the key to running the cube game successfully. As long as they both sound like positive qualities, the girl will naturally believe you when you tell her she is either of these things)
The Ladder = Their goals in life
How tall is the ladder = How difficult they see their goals in life to be
Where is it in relation to the cube = How important are your life's goals to you? Are they guidelines or objectives? Close/leaning on the cube means important to them, far/lying down means they don't let their goals become a huge burden on their lives
Would they be able to climb it = Can they see themselves achieving the goals
Flowers = Friends
Many or few flowers = Many or few friends
In clusters or randomly scattered = Do you hang out with many different groups of people or are all your friends more like one big cluster.
Different types of flowers or all the same = Friends with many different types of people or usually a certain type of personality attracts you
Horse = Ideal guy
How close are you to the horse = Is he dependant/independant
What is the horse doing? Is he calm/excited = Basic description of the guy
Are you petting/touching/on the horse? = Is she caring, will she want to care for her guy?
Thunderstorm = Problems in life
Is the thunderstorm close to the cube? = How much does she let her problems interfere with her life
Is it a destructive storm or is it just a bit of rain and thunder? = How well does she deal with her problems. If the storm is fucking shit up, she lets her problems really affect her life.
After some practice, you should be able to incorporate your own questions about these things and improvise from there. Remember to use all of the details she gives you. As long as you use positive connotations and relatively vague descriptions, the girl will be genuinely convinced you are psychic. Obviously don't tell her anything about herself until you've run through all the questions so she does not realize how you are figuring these things out. The cube game requires a fairly good memory to play, and you must be able to think on your feet, but the truth is, after some practice, you'll know what to say to each and every question. It seems like a complicated routine at first but in reality it's very simple. I'd recommend trying it on one of your buddies first, it works the same for guys and girls really (except for the horse, you should practice that with girls). Also, obviously there are times when you don't have the time to through the whole routine, so feel free to eliminate certain items. I'd say the most important are the cube and the horse, use the others as time allows.
I'll be posting an example of the cube from real life that I did recently shortly to give you a better idea of what it looks like in a real exchange between two people.
Cheers boys,
Sasha
The Professors
Friday, November 12, 2010
Welcome to the Academy
From this day forward, you are part of an elite group known as alpha males.
You're in university now. You've made your way through high school days, heard those legendary stories about those crazy college girls, and now you've come to see the real truth.
Well let me tell you, my friends, the stories are no lie. The world is yours for the taking. You've made it all the way here, so isn't it time you started having the success you've always wanted with the women you could only dream of? This is the best time of our lives, and now more than ever is the time to take life by the horns. Now is the time you live the lifestyle you were promised when you clicked "Accept" on your university offer. Constantly meeting new, great friends. Being surrounded by beautiful women. Truly feeling like king of the campus. Just stop and ask yourself for a second, "why not me?"... No really, do it. I'll wait.
Now some of you may be reading this with some doubt. You could be thinking that the life I am describing is for some category of men that you are not in. Well let me take a minute to reshape your entire view of the world for a second. You are and always have been a part of that category. Your game is a 10 out of 10. YOU are a 10. The truth is that anyone can fit within that category, and better yet, you don't have to completely change your personality or your friends to do so. The only difference between you and that guy at the bar surrounded by 9s and 10s all night is who reaps the benefits offered to him. Everything you think is associated with this category of men that we call alpha males: the women, the friends, the lifestyle... It's all yours. Take it, man!
You could be thinking "Sounds good! But how?" Well, in comes the Alpha Academy. It is not here to change you as a person. I am not here to tell you exactly what to say, how to walk, think, who to talk to and how to dress. Rather, I am here to give you a few tips, a set of skills if you will, on how to take over a room, a club, a bar, a party within minutes of walking in. Simply understanding the social dynamics of any situation is the biggest step you can take in (pardon the cheesiness) being the guy girls want to be with and other guys want to be. Every few days, we'll update this page covering a new aspect of social dynamics, something that will help you finetune your game in some way. It's not to change you, that would be pointless. I told you, your game is already a 10, remember? But everyone has a few things that they can improve on. So take this moment and decide which category of men you will take part of. You have always had a place as an alpha, so would you rather keep acting beta or take what's yours?
I'm sure a lot of you have read or heard of The Game and are thinking "yeah yeah, I've heard all this before. University is different". Yes it is, and that's the area we focus on. It's not some arbitrary pseudo-science which you can vaguely try to apply to your own life. The Alpha Academy is tailored to people in your position, in the same situation you're in, not some 30-somethings talking about the theoretical science of picking up chicks. You've stumbled upon something made for you.
Now to this you can say that reading about being some kind of girl whisperer is one thing, being one is another. I most certainly agree with you. Well we've thought of that too. We're also going to be going out and practicing the skills you're taught here, with some guys that have made the change to the lifestyle they truly want, with whom you'll be willing to learn and teach at the same time, who are not looking to patronize you and call you their students, but who are hoping you will one day call your friends. But we'll have more details on that in the coming posts.
For now, I just want you take in this earthshattering news I've given you, because it's a lot to handle at once. You are the alpha you have always wished you could be, and you deserve to get the things you've always wanted. Take a moment out of your day and ask yourself: Are you willing to commit to being the best version of yourself you can be? Are you willing to learn how to act like the alpha you are? I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it. You only live life once. How are you going to live yours?
You'll be hearing back from us soon. I hope I've inspired you to listen.
Cheers,
Ryan & Sasha
The Professors
You're in university now. You've made your way through high school days, heard those legendary stories about those crazy college girls, and now you've come to see the real truth.
Well let me tell you, my friends, the stories are no lie. The world is yours for the taking. You've made it all the way here, so isn't it time you started having the success you've always wanted with the women you could only dream of? This is the best time of our lives, and now more than ever is the time to take life by the horns. Now is the time you live the lifestyle you were promised when you clicked "Accept" on your university offer. Constantly meeting new, great friends. Being surrounded by beautiful women. Truly feeling like king of the campus. Just stop and ask yourself for a second, "why not me?"... No really, do it. I'll wait.
Now some of you may be reading this with some doubt. You could be thinking that the life I am describing is for some category of men that you are not in. Well let me take a minute to reshape your entire view of the world for a second. You are and always have been a part of that category. Your game is a 10 out of 10. YOU are a 10. The truth is that anyone can fit within that category, and better yet, you don't have to completely change your personality or your friends to do so. The only difference between you and that guy at the bar surrounded by 9s and 10s all night is who reaps the benefits offered to him. Everything you think is associated with this category of men that we call alpha males: the women, the friends, the lifestyle... It's all yours. Take it, man!
You could be thinking "Sounds good! But how?" Well, in comes the Alpha Academy. It is not here to change you as a person. I am not here to tell you exactly what to say, how to walk, think, who to talk to and how to dress. Rather, I am here to give you a few tips, a set of skills if you will, on how to take over a room, a club, a bar, a party within minutes of walking in. Simply understanding the social dynamics of any situation is the biggest step you can take in (pardon the cheesiness) being the guy girls want to be with and other guys want to be. Every few days, we'll update this page covering a new aspect of social dynamics, something that will help you finetune your game in some way. It's not to change you, that would be pointless. I told you, your game is already a 10, remember? But everyone has a few things that they can improve on. So take this moment and decide which category of men you will take part of. You have always had a place as an alpha, so would you rather keep acting beta or take what's yours?
I'm sure a lot of you have read or heard of The Game and are thinking "yeah yeah, I've heard all this before. University is different". Yes it is, and that's the area we focus on. It's not some arbitrary pseudo-science which you can vaguely try to apply to your own life. The Alpha Academy is tailored to people in your position, in the same situation you're in, not some 30-somethings talking about the theoretical science of picking up chicks. You've stumbled upon something made for you.
Now to this you can say that reading about being some kind of girl whisperer is one thing, being one is another. I most certainly agree with you. Well we've thought of that too. We're also going to be going out and practicing the skills you're taught here, with some guys that have made the change to the lifestyle they truly want, with whom you'll be willing to learn and teach at the same time, who are not looking to patronize you and call you their students, but who are hoping you will one day call your friends. But we'll have more details on that in the coming posts.
For now, I just want you take in this earthshattering news I've given you, because it's a lot to handle at once. You are the alpha you have always wished you could be, and you deserve to get the things you've always wanted. Take a moment out of your day and ask yourself: Are you willing to commit to being the best version of yourself you can be? Are you willing to learn how to act like the alpha you are? I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it. You only live life once. How are you going to live yours?
You'll be hearing back from us soon. I hope I've inspired you to listen.
Cheers,
Ryan & Sasha
The Professors
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