Hey guys,
I've been completely swamped this past week with so much going on, it's been absolute madness. But as always, I had to make time to impart the wisdom every man should have and teach to his children.
Today we're gonna talk about a mistake I see again and again when I'm out at the bars. A guy will start talking to a girl and everything might be going well, but other than some conversation, not much is going on. There's no physical contact, no direction and the whole exchange is going nowhere. So a few minutes go by, and the inevitable happens... She has to pee, or her friend comes to get her, or she's leaving, or any other creative excuse she might come up with to get out of the situation. What a lot of guys don't realize is that what you actually say is one of the least important aspects of your game. I know guys that would go out with a whole script they were ready to recite to the girl that was "bound to get them laid". But that was all they had. So every time they'd go out, they'd start up with the girl great, but then 5 minutes in, she's bored and leaves. Guys, remember where you are! Nobody goes out to a bar/nightclub to stand there and have a conversation for half an hour.
This is the time to separate yourself from every other guy. Take the lead. Steer the interaction where you want it to go and raise the sexual tension. By acting like an alpha male, the girl will naturally look to you on how to feel. What's not a big deal to you isn't a big deal to her either. Take that in for a second. You are the one deciding where the interaction goes. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking you have to wait until it's ok with the girl. They're thinking about it the wrong way. By having that belief that it has to be "ok" with the girl, you are really holding the opinion that touching is not a regular, every day thing. But if you treat it like it is an everyday thing, she'll follow along with that mentality.
The key is understanding that you touching her, or talking to her, or walking up to her is not some sort of bold statement showing how brave you are. Instead, it's just how you are. You just happen to be a guy that has no problem walking up to a girl to get her opinion on something, or touching her while interacting. It's just part of your personality. On the contrary, you think it would be weird if someone actually had a problem with that. As long as you maintain that frame of mind, she'll be inclined to be a part of the frame... It's just human nature.
There should also never be a big, ultimate moment at the end of everything. Kissing the girl or getting her number should not be this one big "holy shit" moment where you feel like you have to gather all your strength for this one great push. Instead it should be a natural progression. Again, if it's not a big deal to you, why would it be a big deal to her? So have purpose behind what you do and take the conversation where and how you want it to go!
It's been a rough few weeks with exams and whatnot coming up. But that also means that it's that special time of year. It's getting colder, the holidays are approaching, and girls everywhere need a guy for the winter to keep them warm. So it's time to sack up and be that guy!
Cheers boys and happy hunting,
Sasha
The Professors
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Monday, December 6, 2010
Standing Out... Minus the Fuzzy Hat
Welcome back guys, it's time for another installment of alpha info for your life. Over the weekend, we had some crazy adventures, but there's one particular moment that's been stuck in my head.
I was down in Toronto, meeting up with an old friend, when we decided to grab a few drinks at a bar close by. Now my friend over the last few years has transformed herself into quite the cutie and when we ended up grabbing a booth to chat in privacy, we were ambushed by a truckload of chodes. One after the other. It was like they were each in line, quietly biding their time until the dude ahead of them screwed up and it was finally their turn to strikeout.
At this moment, you're probably wondering why I didn't AMOG the shit out of them, make them look like creeps and get back to my conversation.
Guess what... I didn't have to!
Each guy, just like those before him, preceded to fail miserably on their own accord. I didn't have to do anything. And as the body count piled up, I noticed their lifetime shortened too. My friend had quickly put up her bitch shield, ready to shut down the next chode in line.
Now this is a ripe example of why you should start building a group of hot girls who are just friends. Not only will they want to help wing you when you go out, but you'll also learn so much from simply being around them that you'll instantly see major improvements in your interactions with other cute girls. In fact, this can boost your game so much, I want you to do this now... Like right now.
I'll wait...
Good! Now that we've got that aside, let's figure out what you can learn from my encounter with the chode attack.
After watching guys get shot down over and over and listening to my friend complain about how this happens to her wherever she goes, I want to reinforce something...
Stand out!
I'm not talking about looking like a clown with a fuzzy hat or wearing sunglasses at night. Don't even think of wearing goggles on your head unless your name is Scuba Steve or forever your new nickname shall be the underwater douchebag.
No my friend, you're an alpha male. You don't need to resort to these things to stand out. All you have to do is be different.
This weekend I watched gaggles of men poop out the same lines from their mouths...
"So you go here often?"
"You're so hot"
"Who lies more?"
Trust me, I'm not the only one sick of hearing these same lines. Women hate them! That's why they instantly become so cold. They don't want to be bothered with another loser spouting the same words some other guy said to her twenty minutes ago. Their solution... Get rid of this clueless dude as quickly as possible. In other words, become the biggest megabitch this side of the USSR.
And I can't blame them. It all comes down to what kind of man women really desire and respond to... A man who stands out. A man who isn't afraid to be different, who isn't afraid to be himself and let the people around him see it. A true alpha male.
What woman wants just another one of the guys? Do you want just any woman, or do you want someone who stands out?
So please for everyone's sake...
Ask something you actually would want to be asked. Stop agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth or constantly complimenting her on her looks. Start embracing your distinct qualities. How is she going to see that you're a unique, little snowflake if you're acting just like the other tools out there? And stop saying the identical lines you used with the last girl you approached!
Don't those guys get bored saying the exact same things to each woman they see? I guess not...
But you're different, you're an alpha male. You're from a different breed of men. You stand out among all other men...
So prove it!
Ryan
The Professors
I was down in Toronto, meeting up with an old friend, when we decided to grab a few drinks at a bar close by. Now my friend over the last few years has transformed herself into quite the cutie and when we ended up grabbing a booth to chat in privacy, we were ambushed by a truckload of chodes. One after the other. It was like they were each in line, quietly biding their time until the dude ahead of them screwed up and it was finally their turn to strikeout.
At this moment, you're probably wondering why I didn't AMOG the shit out of them, make them look like creeps and get back to my conversation.
Guess what... I didn't have to!
Each guy, just like those before him, preceded to fail miserably on their own accord. I didn't have to do anything. And as the body count piled up, I noticed their lifetime shortened too. My friend had quickly put up her bitch shield, ready to shut down the next chode in line.
Now this is a ripe example of why you should start building a group of hot girls who are just friends. Not only will they want to help wing you when you go out, but you'll also learn so much from simply being around them that you'll instantly see major improvements in your interactions with other cute girls. In fact, this can boost your game so much, I want you to do this now... Like right now.
I'll wait...
Good! Now that we've got that aside, let's figure out what you can learn from my encounter with the chode attack.
After watching guys get shot down over and over and listening to my friend complain about how this happens to her wherever she goes, I want to reinforce something...
Stand out!
I'm not talking about looking like a clown with a fuzzy hat or wearing sunglasses at night. Don't even think of wearing goggles on your head unless your name is Scuba Steve or forever your new nickname shall be the underwater douchebag.
No my friend, you're an alpha male. You don't need to resort to these things to stand out. All you have to do is be different.
This weekend I watched gaggles of men poop out the same lines from their mouths...
"So you go here often?"
"You're so hot"
"Who lies more?"
Trust me, I'm not the only one sick of hearing these same lines. Women hate them! That's why they instantly become so cold. They don't want to be bothered with another loser spouting the same words some other guy said to her twenty minutes ago. Their solution... Get rid of this clueless dude as quickly as possible. In other words, become the biggest megabitch this side of the USSR.
And I can't blame them. It all comes down to what kind of man women really desire and respond to... A man who stands out. A man who isn't afraid to be different, who isn't afraid to be himself and let the people around him see it. A true alpha male.
What woman wants just another one of the guys? Do you want just any woman, or do you want someone who stands out?
So please for everyone's sake...
Ask something you actually would want to be asked. Stop agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth or constantly complimenting her on her looks. Start embracing your distinct qualities. How is she going to see that you're a unique, little snowflake if you're acting just like the other tools out there? And stop saying the identical lines you used with the last girl you approached!
Don't those guys get bored saying the exact same things to each woman they see? I guess not...
But you're different, you're an alpha male. You're from a different breed of men. You stand out among all other men...
So prove it!
Ryan
The Professors
Monday, November 29, 2010
Talking to Big Groups
Hey guys,
It's been a crazy weekend back in Toronto, and I haven't had time to pop in to post over the weekend. But now I'm back home so it's back to business!
Today we're talking about a huge but extremely complex aspects of game: Groups. It's happened to all of us. You're at the bar with your friends and you look over and see a group of 5 or 6 people, all gathered together, drinking, chatting, having their own party, and in the middle of it all, there she is. The bombshell. The turbo hunnie. The 10. She's surrounded by her friends, some are guys, some girls. You'd give anything to talk to her, but she seems completely inaccessible. So you blame it on bad timing, move on, and go settle for that 7 standing alone at the bar. Well guys, from this day forward, there's gonna be no more of that.
What most guys don't realize is that big groups of people are as approachable as other smaller groups or girls standing alone. There is just a different way of going about it. The idea behind this is that if you are a cool, approachable, fun guy, everyone is going to want in on that. It doesn't matter whether it's a girl standing around alone at the bar or a group of 6 people. If you're a cool, fun guy, anyone will want to meet you!
The key is to get everyone in on the fun. This is the idea most guys don't seem to grasp and because of this, they give up before trying. They think to themselves "Hey, how am I supposed to walk up to this girl and start talking to her while she's with her friends". That's a pretty good question, and the answer is you don't. The girl doesn't know you, and she does not want to be separated from the group at the moment, so instead of going against what she wants, approach the group as a whole first. Don't walk up to them as the reject that's obviously about to interrupt their conversation just so he can hit on one of their friends. Talk to everyone in the group; if there's a guy/guys in the group, talk to him too (I actually don't mind approaching the guy and talking to him briefly before I talk to the girls), and try not to give the girl you want way more attention than anyone else. This will make her feel more comfortable around you, as well as gaining the approval of her friends as well. Always remember, just approaching the group and talking to them instead of trying to pull the girl away from her friends turns you from the sketchy random guy at the bar to that cool, funny guy they met over the weekend who had all those great stories about the crazy adventures in his life. Now that sounds like the kind of guy the girl probably came out to find in the first place.
It's no harder to win over a group than it is a person one on one, the key is making sure you are trying to win over the group before the girl. Once you feel less like a stranger to the group, the girl will have gained some comfort with you and probably wants to get to know you a bit better anyways. On top of that, now that her friends see what a great guy you are, they aren't going to cockblock you with this girl, making everything go a lot smoother. Instead of viewing the friends as obstacles and antagonizing them, think of them as your personal cheerleaders, who are all helping you on your way to land this girl.
Just remember, what you have to show her and her friends is that she's getting just as much out of it as you are! Once you've done that, the rest is cake.
As always, if you guys have any questions about any topics we've covered or suggestions of things you want us to focus on, feel free to email us at alphaacademy@live.com.
Cheers boys,
Sasha
The Professors
It's been a crazy weekend back in Toronto, and I haven't had time to pop in to post over the weekend. But now I'm back home so it's back to business!
Today we're talking about a huge but extremely complex aspects of game: Groups. It's happened to all of us. You're at the bar with your friends and you look over and see a group of 5 or 6 people, all gathered together, drinking, chatting, having their own party, and in the middle of it all, there she is. The bombshell. The turbo hunnie. The 10. She's surrounded by her friends, some are guys, some girls. You'd give anything to talk to her, but she seems completely inaccessible. So you blame it on bad timing, move on, and go settle for that 7 standing alone at the bar. Well guys, from this day forward, there's gonna be no more of that.
What most guys don't realize is that big groups of people are as approachable as other smaller groups or girls standing alone. There is just a different way of going about it. The idea behind this is that if you are a cool, approachable, fun guy, everyone is going to want in on that. It doesn't matter whether it's a girl standing around alone at the bar or a group of 6 people. If you're a cool, fun guy, anyone will want to meet you!
The key is to get everyone in on the fun. This is the idea most guys don't seem to grasp and because of this, they give up before trying. They think to themselves "Hey, how am I supposed to walk up to this girl and start talking to her while she's with her friends". That's a pretty good question, and the answer is you don't. The girl doesn't know you, and she does not want to be separated from the group at the moment, so instead of going against what she wants, approach the group as a whole first. Don't walk up to them as the reject that's obviously about to interrupt their conversation just so he can hit on one of their friends. Talk to everyone in the group; if there's a guy/guys in the group, talk to him too (I actually don't mind approaching the guy and talking to him briefly before I talk to the girls), and try not to give the girl you want way more attention than anyone else. This will make her feel more comfortable around you, as well as gaining the approval of her friends as well. Always remember, just approaching the group and talking to them instead of trying to pull the girl away from her friends turns you from the sketchy random guy at the bar to that cool, funny guy they met over the weekend who had all those great stories about the crazy adventures in his life. Now that sounds like the kind of guy the girl probably came out to find in the first place.
It's no harder to win over a group than it is a person one on one, the key is making sure you are trying to win over the group before the girl. Once you feel less like a stranger to the group, the girl will have gained some comfort with you and probably wants to get to know you a bit better anyways. On top of that, now that her friends see what a great guy you are, they aren't going to cockblock you with this girl, making everything go a lot smoother. Instead of viewing the friends as obstacles and antagonizing them, think of them as your personal cheerleaders, who are all helping you on your way to land this girl.
Just remember, what you have to show her and her friends is that she's getting just as much out of it as you are! Once you've done that, the rest is cake.
As always, if you guys have any questions about any topics we've covered or suggestions of things you want us to focus on, feel free to email us at alphaacademy@live.com.
Cheers boys,
Sasha
The Professors
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Is She Into You?
Gather around guys, it's time for a talk about a key sticking point most college guys encounter on a regular basis.
You've managed to find a cute girl, started talking to her and now you're wondering how she feels about you. The problem is... How do you tell? You're not a mind reader. And you don't want to ask and risk looking like a tool. She's not going to tell you herself, so how do you figure out what's going on in that pretty little head of hers?
Most guys don't realize that women are constantly giving you hints on how they feel... You're just not looking in the right spots.
When a women is attracted to someone, she reveals subtle signs of her interest. These indicators can tell you when she's warming up to you, when it's time to eject, or even when it's time to seal the deal.
Now these signals vary and come in many forms, so you have to keep your eyes open. The good thing is most women exhibit the same basic signs. These include:
- Grooming (playing with hair, fussing with her clothes, touching her face)
- Eye contact
- Touching you and comfortable with you touching her
- Smiling, laughing, giggling
- Feet pointed towards you
- Leaning in towards you to speak or listen
- Playing along with your jokes
- Investing in the conversation
Don't expect a girl to do all of these things. If she is and you're in the bar still, you better start looking in your pockets for cab money. Generally it should take only three of these indicators to announce loud and clear... Make your move!
I say three because if she running her fingers through her hair, she may just be self conscious about her new hairstyle. But if she's playing with her hair, giggling and leaning in to hear what you have to say... You have the green light my friend.
Since women give these signals of their interest, they also give signals of their disinterest. These are signs that you have to allow her to become comfortable with your presence before she will start opening up with you. These can include:
- Not facing you
- Looking anywhere but at you
- Being unresponsive
- Avoid physical contact
- Crossed arms and other defensive body language
- Not contributing to the conversation
This is a lot to remember so I'll share with you guys a quick trick that you can use tonight to tell if that pretty lady is into or not.
During the conversation, while she's talking about her cats, simply look somewhere else. At your friends across the bar, the dancefloor, doesn't matter... Did her eyes follow yours? If she's interested in you, she will be paying attention to you and want to check out whatever you were just looking at.
Now that you can read any woman's mind, go out have some fun with it. Suddenly you'll be noticing that girl across the bar who's been scoping you out, smiling and playing with her hair the whole time...
Go make your move,
Ryan
The Professors
You've managed to find a cute girl, started talking to her and now you're wondering how she feels about you. The problem is... How do you tell? You're not a mind reader. And you don't want to ask and risk looking like a tool. She's not going to tell you herself, so how do you figure out what's going on in that pretty little head of hers?
Most guys don't realize that women are constantly giving you hints on how they feel... You're just not looking in the right spots.
When a women is attracted to someone, she reveals subtle signs of her interest. These indicators can tell you when she's warming up to you, when it's time to eject, or even when it's time to seal the deal.
Now these signals vary and come in many forms, so you have to keep your eyes open. The good thing is most women exhibit the same basic signs. These include:
- Grooming (playing with hair, fussing with her clothes, touching her face)
- Eye contact
- Touching you and comfortable with you touching her
- Smiling, laughing, giggling
- Feet pointed towards you
- Leaning in towards you to speak or listen
- Playing along with your jokes
- Investing in the conversation
Don't expect a girl to do all of these things. If she is and you're in the bar still, you better start looking in your pockets for cab money. Generally it should take only three of these indicators to announce loud and clear... Make your move!
I say three because if she running her fingers through her hair, she may just be self conscious about her new hairstyle. But if she's playing with her hair, giggling and leaning in to hear what you have to say... You have the green light my friend.
Since women give these signals of their interest, they also give signals of their disinterest. These are signs that you have to allow her to become comfortable with your presence before she will start opening up with you. These can include:
- Not facing you
- Looking anywhere but at you
- Being unresponsive
- Avoid physical contact
- Crossed arms and other defensive body language
- Not contributing to the conversation
This is a lot to remember so I'll share with you guys a quick trick that you can use tonight to tell if that pretty lady is into or not.
During the conversation, while she's talking about her cats, simply look somewhere else. At your friends across the bar, the dancefloor, doesn't matter... Did her eyes follow yours? If she's interested in you, she will be paying attention to you and want to check out whatever you were just looking at.
Now that you can read any woman's mind, go out have some fun with it. Suddenly you'll be noticing that girl across the bar who's been scoping you out, smiling and playing with her hair the whole time...
Go make your move,
Ryan
The Professors
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
The 3 Second Rule
Hey guys,
Today we're tackling a big issue, maybe the biggest, that guys run into when talking to girls: The approach, or more specifically, approach anxiety.
Approach anxiety is the feeling you get when your body feels like its about to step out of its comfort zone. It's that voice in your head that suddenly starts listing every possible bad situation you might bump into if you decide to walk over and talk to this girl. I've got big news for you, boys... Approach anxiety affects us all: The newcomers, the guys who have gotten good over time, even the naturals. The only difference between them is how they deal with it. This is the purpose of the 3 second rule.
The 3 second rule sounds very simple, but it will immensely reduce the amount of approach anxiety you get before talking to a girl. The rule is simple. The time between seeing the girl and deciding you want to go for her and you actually talking to her should be no more than 3 seconds. Follow this rule first and foremost, before the "what do I do's" and "what do I say's", and you will notice that you come off much more alpha straight from the approach. This is because you haven't worked out the perfect execution in your head, it doesn't look set up, or canned or anything, because it's not. It's natural. The funny thing is that after a few tries, and if you know one or two good openers (if you can't think of anything else), you'll notice that you'll be getting much better responses. Game is all about learning to be quick on your feet, and nothing puts that to the test like the 3 second rule.
The second part of the 3 second rule says that 3 seconds after entering the bar/club/party, you should be talking to someone. Anyone. Doesn't matter who and doesn't matter what you say. Enter the venue in a social mood, be ready to meet new friends and make memories, and don't waste time moping around finding the nearest corner to stand in. Not only does this reduce approach anxiety, but it doesn't ever give the chance for people to see you standing alone. As soon as you walk in, you are the life of the party, and everyone will want to get in on the fun! And that's before they hear anything you have to say, that's just the sheer fact that you don't hesitate before talking to a beautiful girl. It shows that this is nothing new for you, you are used to this, you are not intimidated by them.
The 3 second rule, believe it or not, will actually make your life much easier, and following it will save you a lot of headaches thinking about exactly how the perfect routine between you and her would go. Don't ever forget, you're game is a 10, so it's gonna go well no matter what ;)
My challenge to you is the next time you go out, just try to follow the 3 second rule the whole night. Don't even bother judging whether you are more successful with girls. That's secondary. The first thing you should think about is which night did you have more fun? How many more people did you meet? Which night did you take more from?
Give it a shot, and tell us how it goes! Memorize one or two openers that you know very well that can spark up a conversation and try to get to know as many people as you can while following the 3 second rule. If you want to get a more in depth look at getting over approach anxiety and the 3 second rule's effectiveness with that, email us at alphaacademy@live.com
Happy Hunting boys!
Sasha
The Professors
Today we're tackling a big issue, maybe the biggest, that guys run into when talking to girls: The approach, or more specifically, approach anxiety.
Approach anxiety is the feeling you get when your body feels like its about to step out of its comfort zone. It's that voice in your head that suddenly starts listing every possible bad situation you might bump into if you decide to walk over and talk to this girl. I've got big news for you, boys... Approach anxiety affects us all: The newcomers, the guys who have gotten good over time, even the naturals. The only difference between them is how they deal with it. This is the purpose of the 3 second rule.
The 3 second rule sounds very simple, but it will immensely reduce the amount of approach anxiety you get before talking to a girl. The rule is simple. The time between seeing the girl and deciding you want to go for her and you actually talking to her should be no more than 3 seconds. Follow this rule first and foremost, before the "what do I do's" and "what do I say's", and you will notice that you come off much more alpha straight from the approach. This is because you haven't worked out the perfect execution in your head, it doesn't look set up, or canned or anything, because it's not. It's natural. The funny thing is that after a few tries, and if you know one or two good openers (if you can't think of anything else), you'll notice that you'll be getting much better responses. Game is all about learning to be quick on your feet, and nothing puts that to the test like the 3 second rule.
The second part of the 3 second rule says that 3 seconds after entering the bar/club/party, you should be talking to someone. Anyone. Doesn't matter who and doesn't matter what you say. Enter the venue in a social mood, be ready to meet new friends and make memories, and don't waste time moping around finding the nearest corner to stand in. Not only does this reduce approach anxiety, but it doesn't ever give the chance for people to see you standing alone. As soon as you walk in, you are the life of the party, and everyone will want to get in on the fun! And that's before they hear anything you have to say, that's just the sheer fact that you don't hesitate before talking to a beautiful girl. It shows that this is nothing new for you, you are used to this, you are not intimidated by them.
The 3 second rule, believe it or not, will actually make your life much easier, and following it will save you a lot of headaches thinking about exactly how the perfect routine between you and her would go. Don't ever forget, you're game is a 10, so it's gonna go well no matter what ;)
My challenge to you is the next time you go out, just try to follow the 3 second rule the whole night. Don't even bother judging whether you are more successful with girls. That's secondary. The first thing you should think about is which night did you have more fun? How many more people did you meet? Which night did you take more from?
Give it a shot, and tell us how it goes! Memorize one or two openers that you know very well that can spark up a conversation and try to get to know as many people as you can while following the 3 second rule. If you want to get a more in depth look at getting over approach anxiety and the 3 second rule's effectiveness with that, email us at alphaacademy@live.com
Happy Hunting boys!
Sasha
The Professors
Monday, November 22, 2010
Awesome Daygame Opener
Hey guys,
It's an afternoon shot of alpha for your day, so get psyched and let's get going.
Today I'm hooking you guys up with an awesome daygame opener I've been refining the last few weeks. With winter approaching fast and all the pretty girls retreating to their homes to hibernate, this is going to be one of the last weeks we'll be seeing a plethora of approachable ladies on and around campus. And if you're looking for a couple cuties to cozy up with over the holidays, even more reason to get your campus wheels going...
Now normally I'm not a big fan of canned openers. They can be uninspired and get old real fast. Instead, I like to use canned openers only in certain cases. Usually I start out students new to the seduction community with canned openers so they can focus on the more important obstacles. Other than that, canned material can be good if you have a brain fart and can't manage to improvise at that moment. Generally though, I like to use canned material to spice things up and try something different out. So let's have some fun and get cracking...
Now the thing that I love about this opener is that it's semi-direct, playful, and builds a little tension. And although most pickup teachers will tell you different, being direct is NOT a bad thing. There are just some things you have to keep in mind when you do it...
1. Always be playful. Fun, smiling, playful guys get laid... That's why they're having fun, playing around, and smiling. This also draws people to you since they want in on the fun.
2. Say something different. If you're saying the exact same thing as the last twenty guys, why do you think she's going to be receptive to you when she wasn't to them?
3. Always takeaway. Build in some sort of subtle neg (backhanded compliment) or takeaway in your opener so she's left wanting to regain her status in your eyes.
So here it is boys...
You: Hey, I just wanted to come say hi. Actually I've got a personal policy to say hi to the prettiest girl I see all day.
*Now pause for a second*
She's going to be readying herself to pass judgement on you as any typical AFC so you can't let her speak, just yet...
You: I figured I'd let you know you got second place.
*As you say this flash her that sly smirk of yours and let it simmer*
The beauty in this opener is that you're allowing her to build herself up in her head before ripping away the carpet from underneath her. No one wants to accept that they're great, but that you've seen better. It's a wonderful way of making the woman want to reestablish her value in your mind. Immediately the frame of the conversation becomes her validating herself to you.
From this point, I like to transition rather quickly by mentioning something I observed about her outfit, whether it be a necklace or ring, and get her to make up a really cool background story for it... Usually involving ninjas and a trip to Japan.
Well that's it for today boys! I want you guys to go out on campus this week and cause some mayhem with your new opener. Try it out, play around with it and make it yours. Then come back here to comment on your success and any difficulties you experienced. If you want instant feedback, email me at alphaacademy@live.com
Enjoy and good luck men,
Ryan
The Professors
It's an afternoon shot of alpha for your day, so get psyched and let's get going.
Today I'm hooking you guys up with an awesome daygame opener I've been refining the last few weeks. With winter approaching fast and all the pretty girls retreating to their homes to hibernate, this is going to be one of the last weeks we'll be seeing a plethora of approachable ladies on and around campus. And if you're looking for a couple cuties to cozy up with over the holidays, even more reason to get your campus wheels going...
Now normally I'm not a big fan of canned openers. They can be uninspired and get old real fast. Instead, I like to use canned openers only in certain cases. Usually I start out students new to the seduction community with canned openers so they can focus on the more important obstacles. Other than that, canned material can be good if you have a brain fart and can't manage to improvise at that moment. Generally though, I like to use canned material to spice things up and try something different out. So let's have some fun and get cracking...
Now the thing that I love about this opener is that it's semi-direct, playful, and builds a little tension. And although most pickup teachers will tell you different, being direct is NOT a bad thing. There are just some things you have to keep in mind when you do it...
1. Always be playful. Fun, smiling, playful guys get laid... That's why they're having fun, playing around, and smiling. This also draws people to you since they want in on the fun.
2. Say something different. If you're saying the exact same thing as the last twenty guys, why do you think she's going to be receptive to you when she wasn't to them?
3. Always takeaway. Build in some sort of subtle neg (backhanded compliment) or takeaway in your opener so she's left wanting to regain her status in your eyes.
So here it is boys...
You: Hey, I just wanted to come say hi. Actually I've got a personal policy to say hi to the prettiest girl I see all day.
*Now pause for a second*
She's going to be readying herself to pass judgement on you as any typical AFC so you can't let her speak, just yet...
You: I figured I'd let you know you got second place.
*As you say this flash her that sly smirk of yours and let it simmer*
The beauty in this opener is that you're allowing her to build herself up in her head before ripping away the carpet from underneath her. No one wants to accept that they're great, but that you've seen better. It's a wonderful way of making the woman want to reestablish her value in your mind. Immediately the frame of the conversation becomes her validating herself to you.
From this point, I like to transition rather quickly by mentioning something I observed about her outfit, whether it be a necklace or ring, and get her to make up a really cool background story for it... Usually involving ninjas and a trip to Japan.
Well that's it for today boys! I want you guys to go out on campus this week and cause some mayhem with your new opener. Try it out, play around with it and make it yours. Then come back here to comment on your success and any difficulties you experienced. If you want instant feedback, email me at alphaacademy@live.com
Enjoy and good luck men,
Ryan
The Professors
Friday, November 19, 2010
Out of Your League
Hey boys,
Class is in session and tonight we're having a little chat about the 9s and 10s of the world. Now I'm not talking about just any attractive girls. I'm talking about a select group of ladies who have all those superficial qualities that us men love. The headturners. The bombshells. The turbo hunnies...
There's a hometown friend of mine who has the belief that you shouldn't go for these girls. All throughout high school he would avoid these stunning girls to settle for whatever else he could find. Now if you're anything like me, you're asking if he was scared, maybe insecure, or even gay. It was actually nothing of the sort. His reasoning... These girls were simply out of his league.
He thought that his looks, his cash, or lack thereof restricted him to a certain breed of women.
Trust me, I didn't have any problem with it. We would go to parties all the time and as my friend was sticking to his range of girls, I would be free to entertain myself with all the megababes.
Now I'm no Brad Pitt or Zac Efron and I definitely didn't have money to throw around in high school. So what separated me from my friend? Absolutely nothing whatsoever... Except my mentality.
Now I want to assign a small mission for you guys this weekend. One of the next few nights go out, have an awesome time, throw in a dash of recklessness, but most importantly... Take a moment to pause. If you're at a bar, a house party, or a club, survey your surroundings. Observe the guys with the hotties hanging off of them. Do they really have the movie star looks? Or are they actually just average looking guys like you and me? Yeah, I know.
Despite the common misconceptions... Leagues do not exist.
I'm sure you've had those friends. We all have them. You mention something about the sexy blonde by the pool tables or the stunning brunette across the bar. Immediately your friend blurts out that she WAY out of your league. In fact, you don't even have a shot.
Now are you the kind of male that would just accept it and look for someone more "appropriate" for you? Or instead are you the man that views that as a challenge? An irrelevant obstacle on your way to ultimate glory and success with this perfect 10...
You better have chosen the second one.
Aim high,
Ryan
The Professors
Class is in session and tonight we're having a little chat about the 9s and 10s of the world. Now I'm not talking about just any attractive girls. I'm talking about a select group of ladies who have all those superficial qualities that us men love. The headturners. The bombshells. The turbo hunnies...
There's a hometown friend of mine who has the belief that you shouldn't go for these girls. All throughout high school he would avoid these stunning girls to settle for whatever else he could find. Now if you're anything like me, you're asking if he was scared, maybe insecure, or even gay. It was actually nothing of the sort. His reasoning... These girls were simply out of his league.
He thought that his looks, his cash, or lack thereof restricted him to a certain breed of women.
Trust me, I didn't have any problem with it. We would go to parties all the time and as my friend was sticking to his range of girls, I would be free to entertain myself with all the megababes.
Now I'm no Brad Pitt or Zac Efron and I definitely didn't have money to throw around in high school. So what separated me from my friend? Absolutely nothing whatsoever... Except my mentality.
Now I want to assign a small mission for you guys this weekend. One of the next few nights go out, have an awesome time, throw in a dash of recklessness, but most importantly... Take a moment to pause. If you're at a bar, a house party, or a club, survey your surroundings. Observe the guys with the hotties hanging off of them. Do they really have the movie star looks? Or are they actually just average looking guys like you and me? Yeah, I know.
Despite the common misconceptions... Leagues do not exist.
I'm sure you've had those friends. We all have them. You mention something about the sexy blonde by the pool tables or the stunning brunette across the bar. Immediately your friend blurts out that she WAY out of your league. In fact, you don't even have a shot.
Now are you the kind of male that would just accept it and look for someone more "appropriate" for you? Or instead are you the man that views that as a challenge? An irrelevant obstacle on your way to ultimate glory and success with this perfect 10...
You better have chosen the second one.
Aim high,
Ryan
The Professors
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