Hey guys,
I've been completely swamped this past week with so much going on, it's been absolute madness. But as always, I had to make time to impart the wisdom every man should have and teach to his children.
Today we're gonna talk about a mistake I see again and again when I'm out at the bars. A guy will start talking to a girl and everything might be going well, but other than some conversation, not much is going on. There's no physical contact, no direction and the whole exchange is going nowhere. So a few minutes go by, and the inevitable happens... She has to pee, or her friend comes to get her, or she's leaving, or any other creative excuse she might come up with to get out of the situation. What a lot of guys don't realize is that what you actually say is one of the least important aspects of your game. I know guys that would go out with a whole script they were ready to recite to the girl that was "bound to get them laid". But that was all they had. So every time they'd go out, they'd start up with the girl great, but then 5 minutes in, she's bored and leaves. Guys, remember where you are! Nobody goes out to a bar/nightclub to stand there and have a conversation for half an hour.
This is the time to separate yourself from every other guy. Take the lead. Steer the interaction where you want it to go and raise the sexual tension. By acting like an alpha male, the girl will naturally look to you on how to feel. What's not a big deal to you isn't a big deal to her either. Take that in for a second. You are the one deciding where the interaction goes. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking you have to wait until it's ok with the girl. They're thinking about it the wrong way. By having that belief that it has to be "ok" with the girl, you are really holding the opinion that touching is not a regular, every day thing. But if you treat it like it is an everyday thing, she'll follow along with that mentality.
The key is understanding that you touching her, or talking to her, or walking up to her is not some sort of bold statement showing how brave you are. Instead, it's just how you are. You just happen to be a guy that has no problem walking up to a girl to get her opinion on something, or touching her while interacting. It's just part of your personality. On the contrary, you think it would be weird if someone actually had a problem with that. As long as you maintain that frame of mind, she'll be inclined to be a part of the frame... It's just human nature.
There should also never be a big, ultimate moment at the end of everything. Kissing the girl or getting her number should not be this one big "holy shit" moment where you feel like you have to gather all your strength for this one great push. Instead it should be a natural progression. Again, if it's not a big deal to you, why would it be a big deal to her? So have purpose behind what you do and take the conversation where and how you want it to go!
It's been a rough few weeks with exams and whatnot coming up. But that also means that it's that special time of year. It's getting colder, the holidays are approaching, and girls everywhere need a guy for the winter to keep them warm. So it's time to sack up and be that guy!
Cheers boys and happy hunting,
Sasha
The Professors
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Monday, December 6, 2010
Standing Out... Minus the Fuzzy Hat
Welcome back guys, it's time for another installment of alpha info for your life. Over the weekend, we had some crazy adventures, but there's one particular moment that's been stuck in my head.
I was down in Toronto, meeting up with an old friend, when we decided to grab a few drinks at a bar close by. Now my friend over the last few years has transformed herself into quite the cutie and when we ended up grabbing a booth to chat in privacy, we were ambushed by a truckload of chodes. One after the other. It was like they were each in line, quietly biding their time until the dude ahead of them screwed up and it was finally their turn to strikeout.
At this moment, you're probably wondering why I didn't AMOG the shit out of them, make them look like creeps and get back to my conversation.
Guess what... I didn't have to!
Each guy, just like those before him, preceded to fail miserably on their own accord. I didn't have to do anything. And as the body count piled up, I noticed their lifetime shortened too. My friend had quickly put up her bitch shield, ready to shut down the next chode in line.
Now this is a ripe example of why you should start building a group of hot girls who are just friends. Not only will they want to help wing you when you go out, but you'll also learn so much from simply being around them that you'll instantly see major improvements in your interactions with other cute girls. In fact, this can boost your game so much, I want you to do this now... Like right now.
I'll wait...
Good! Now that we've got that aside, let's figure out what you can learn from my encounter with the chode attack.
After watching guys get shot down over and over and listening to my friend complain about how this happens to her wherever she goes, I want to reinforce something...
Stand out!
I'm not talking about looking like a clown with a fuzzy hat or wearing sunglasses at night. Don't even think of wearing goggles on your head unless your name is Scuba Steve or forever your new nickname shall be the underwater douchebag.
No my friend, you're an alpha male. You don't need to resort to these things to stand out. All you have to do is be different.
This weekend I watched gaggles of men poop out the same lines from their mouths...
"So you go here often?"
"You're so hot"
"Who lies more?"
Trust me, I'm not the only one sick of hearing these same lines. Women hate them! That's why they instantly become so cold. They don't want to be bothered with another loser spouting the same words some other guy said to her twenty minutes ago. Their solution... Get rid of this clueless dude as quickly as possible. In other words, become the biggest megabitch this side of the USSR.
And I can't blame them. It all comes down to what kind of man women really desire and respond to... A man who stands out. A man who isn't afraid to be different, who isn't afraid to be himself and let the people around him see it. A true alpha male.
What woman wants just another one of the guys? Do you want just any woman, or do you want someone who stands out?
So please for everyone's sake...
Ask something you actually would want to be asked. Stop agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth or constantly complimenting her on her looks. Start embracing your distinct qualities. How is she going to see that you're a unique, little snowflake if you're acting just like the other tools out there? And stop saying the identical lines you used with the last girl you approached!
Don't those guys get bored saying the exact same things to each woman they see? I guess not...
But you're different, you're an alpha male. You're from a different breed of men. You stand out among all other men...
So prove it!
Ryan
The Professors
I was down in Toronto, meeting up with an old friend, when we decided to grab a few drinks at a bar close by. Now my friend over the last few years has transformed herself into quite the cutie and when we ended up grabbing a booth to chat in privacy, we were ambushed by a truckload of chodes. One after the other. It was like they were each in line, quietly biding their time until the dude ahead of them screwed up and it was finally their turn to strikeout.
At this moment, you're probably wondering why I didn't AMOG the shit out of them, make them look like creeps and get back to my conversation.
Guess what... I didn't have to!
Each guy, just like those before him, preceded to fail miserably on their own accord. I didn't have to do anything. And as the body count piled up, I noticed their lifetime shortened too. My friend had quickly put up her bitch shield, ready to shut down the next chode in line.
Now this is a ripe example of why you should start building a group of hot girls who are just friends. Not only will they want to help wing you when you go out, but you'll also learn so much from simply being around them that you'll instantly see major improvements in your interactions with other cute girls. In fact, this can boost your game so much, I want you to do this now... Like right now.
I'll wait...
Good! Now that we've got that aside, let's figure out what you can learn from my encounter with the chode attack.
After watching guys get shot down over and over and listening to my friend complain about how this happens to her wherever she goes, I want to reinforce something...
Stand out!
I'm not talking about looking like a clown with a fuzzy hat or wearing sunglasses at night. Don't even think of wearing goggles on your head unless your name is Scuba Steve or forever your new nickname shall be the underwater douchebag.
No my friend, you're an alpha male. You don't need to resort to these things to stand out. All you have to do is be different.
This weekend I watched gaggles of men poop out the same lines from their mouths...
"So you go here often?"
"You're so hot"
"Who lies more?"
Trust me, I'm not the only one sick of hearing these same lines. Women hate them! That's why they instantly become so cold. They don't want to be bothered with another loser spouting the same words some other guy said to her twenty minutes ago. Their solution... Get rid of this clueless dude as quickly as possible. In other words, become the biggest megabitch this side of the USSR.
And I can't blame them. It all comes down to what kind of man women really desire and respond to... A man who stands out. A man who isn't afraid to be different, who isn't afraid to be himself and let the people around him see it. A true alpha male.
What woman wants just another one of the guys? Do you want just any woman, or do you want someone who stands out?
So please for everyone's sake...
Ask something you actually would want to be asked. Stop agreeing with everything that comes out of her mouth or constantly complimenting her on her looks. Start embracing your distinct qualities. How is she going to see that you're a unique, little snowflake if you're acting just like the other tools out there? And stop saying the identical lines you used with the last girl you approached!
Don't those guys get bored saying the exact same things to each woman they see? I guess not...
But you're different, you're an alpha male. You're from a different breed of men. You stand out among all other men...
So prove it!
Ryan
The Professors
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